I was just wondering what you all think about massages? I am very good at giving them and girls love when I do, but it only seems to escalate about 50% of the time. Also I have talked to close girl friends and they have told me that sometimes massages can be seen as completely non-sexual, so how can I make sure the girl knows it is more then a friendly back rub?

after i have the girl basically moaning and telling how good i am at giving massages - or the typical - "where did u learn how to do this?"
I will switch and start to get playful
i do this by running the faintest touch of my fingertips up her sides and up the insides of her arms
this is presuming the girl has her shirt off - if she doesnt - tell her to get the full experience the shirt needs to come off - it's in the way

wait- and if ur giving a girl ur targeting a massage - i also assume uv gamed her enough to get her into ur bed - there should have already been ioi's - maybe even a k-close?

another thing to do is while ur giving her the chills with ur faint fingertips... use ur breath to blow or breath on her neck
also - make sure ur not just giving her a "back-rub"
a "massage" is a full-body experience.
get the arms, legs, top of butt, sneak ur fingers just a lil under her panty-line at her butt crack, get her inner thighs eventually (not the vagina - i really do mean the inner thighs), and even some side-boob

if she enjoys all this- u should be in - start kissing her neck and/or blowing sucking nibbling her ear
then it should be on

ACE

To make sure that it's only
friendly, say this:

Oh, hey! wanna see something
really cool? A friend of mine
taught me how to give deep
tissue massages, it feels great.

Check this out:

Start giving the massage and say:

This is all you get for now, so don't
get any ideas. (say it in a playful mood).

In style's book the game, he has his first threesom by using a message. Already you can to the point where you can give the message. First start off like its a normal non sexual message. Then start to explore a little bit by extending your message to the legs and arms (like ace said). Eventually move to inner thigh and side boob. At this point the energy level should be high. Start by kissing the place your messaging, start with back first and move to her neck. Now you can keep going on the messag kiss thing or go inot style's evolution routine.

good luck