ok so I met this girl at the football game on saturday. Its my friends girlfriends friend. I was getting non stop attention from her including kino from here. I def showed that I was into her. I was negging her all night. We were in a taxi and she was just rubbing my back and my side. (We were both comming down from being intoxicated, barely intoxicated though.) All of us got back to our dorm and we talked about random shit and she went back to her dorm room. She was feeling sick like coughing so me being an AFC, show all desprateness went and brought her cold ezz cough med, and tylonol PM from my dorm room. She bacially invited me to watch a movie with her but I didnt want to hook up with her because I didnt want to get sick. The next night I knocked on her dorm room and she opened and invited me in. I was neggggging her and being so mean that I think I fucked my self over. She was sitting on her bed and I was sitting on a chair. I was struggling for things to talk about and struggling to make her conforable. I need to show that I want to hook up/date her and that im not a mean person. How can I make the next step...I think I am showing to much intrest and I need to make her comforable. The thing is she talks to my friends girlfriend and I dont know what to do. HOW DO I APPROACH SEXUALLY SLASH SEDUCE HER?? I hve read the game, I have read the MM...I am always on this site but decided to regrester tonight for this sole reason. I am always online searching for new material....I REALLY NEED HELKP WITH THIS!!!

i wrote about this for another thread, it might help you:

1. Move the target to another location. You want her to be away from your friends, in a place (different room at a party, upstairs/downstairs bar, etc...) where you are the only person she knows. This creates a comfort zone for her plus all the attention will be focused on you
2. While keeping the convo going intensify the kino and look for cues from her. The best way to do this is when sitting down confortably on a sofa. I usually start by holding my arm around her waist, then move it to her legs, where I caress her lightly, and then stick my hand between her legs around knee level.
3. By now, you should be getting some IOIs back. Ideally you would want her to caress you back, or hold your hold your hand. Then, you let the conversation die (DON T do it if she just asked you a question though, you ll look creepy) and look her straight in the eyes with a romantic half-smile (don't smile too much but don't look to serious either or you might scare her). You can wait 3 seconds of eye contact to make your move, but usually by this time the deal is sealed and so...
4. Go for it!

Ok, so for your specific situation, it seems like you have easy access to her dorm room, so you don't have to worry about her friends. You can get to sit next to her by suggesting to watch a movie. Make sure you re the one who chooses the movie (alpha behavior) and go for a really good comedy (like "lock, stock..." or something similar). Or you can tell her you wanna show her something on her laptop, sit on her chair and have her sit on your lap, and jump to (2). If you have problems wit convo, there s also a lot of advice on this site but if you need more let me know.

hope this helps. GOOD LUCK!

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dude when the girl is comfortable with you already u dont need to do negs. at that point u need to be relaxed, a lil less cocky and more funny. basically after she shows intrest just be yourself man.

right now u need to try and spark intrest with her again by doing some fun things like go to the arcade or billiard at your dorm. and while u r with act like ur her big brother by telling her wat to do and when to should do it.