so anyways, I stayed at my friends appt. (out of town) over the weekend and I was instantly attracted to her roommate. So I did my whole routine and it worked. Me and her didn't really hook up but we fooled around quite a bit and I slept in her bed both nights.

Usually I can hook up with a girl and forget about her the next day but I can't get this girl out of my head. The only problem is that she has a BF who lives out of town and i'm not too sure how to approach this. She seems to really care about her BF so I didn't really act like I wanted more than a good time. I'll be going back to their place in about 3 weeks or so ...but my question to you guy's is, what should i do in the meantime? should I call her or should I wait until then and just play it cool?

thanks for your help guys

farmer "1st time poster"

PLAY IT COOL...

If you really like this chick, just play it cool. You're woman-friend is most likely going to find out that you fooled around with her roommate. Girls talk. So, what you can do is use your friend as a pivot to build you up.

This girl may seem like she cares about her BF now, but wait till she starts getting lonely. Long distance relationships never seem to work out. It already seems like she's getting lonely and exploring other options-you. If she really, really cared about the BF, she wouldn't have done anything with you.

You've already opened her up to playing around. She wants to be wanted.

But the thing is, it seems like you're only gonna see her when you visit. Seems like you're an out-of-town guy too...

Play it cool, and play it on her cues.

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FU$ION

I agree play it cool. Even if you like this girl... think about what you just finish doing. You opened her up and from what you told me I am willing to bet that she is lonely and that if someone else were to do the same she might give in too. So, don't get attached to her so fast. Girls like that are not always loyal girlfriends as she demonstrated it with you. be careful have fun but don't take it beyond that; less you want to be sucked in her love triangle.

Definitely play it cool.

Throw some negs, but still
show some signs of intrest
so that you don't get L.J.B.F.ed.

As soon as you're done with
A3 and move onto C1 or C2,
is where I think you should start
making the moves.

MAKE SURE SHE'S COOL WITH IT
YOU DON'T WANT TO MAKE IT CREEPY
OR AWKWARD FOR HER.

Good luck, bro .

PLAY IT COOL

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thanks guys,

i'll definitely be playing it cool...a little more info is, I am an out of towner but i'm only about 1hr. away opposed to her BF who is about 6hrs. away.

I have this problem with most girls that I meet, I tend to depend on my looks too much (with all girls that I meet) I can open with the best of them and I can build attraction pretty quick, but after the initial meet I lose momentum.

also, i'm just now trying to get into the community...do you guys recomend "The Game" as a good read?

thanks for all the input

"The Game" is, in my opinion, not the
BEST book to be reading if you're just
getting into the community. If you're
still new, read "The Mystery Method,"
instead.

That book will teach you everything
you need to know about women and
you will learn from scratch. Check it
out for yourself some time.