... because I did, and I'm starting to wonder whether I done the right thing!

Basically I was seeing a girl, turned into a case of reciprocated oneitis, she was into me and I quite liked her - although we never let on... Basically it was getting to the point where I was getting lazy sarging (although still sarging) because I was getting comfortable with her - seeing her once a week, getting all cuddly and shit.

So, because a) I decided I could do better, and b) I want to still improve on the game (I feel I'll be losing out on improving my inner game if I get with her) and c) a literal fear that I'll turn into an AFC if I get into the relationship I told her that we should cool it off... Which in turn has completely blown her off!

Obviously now there's a lot of questionning - like have I spoilt the opportunity to have a relationship with a nice girl for a while and been too desperate to keep on the game, or was it a severe case of oneitis and I should just blow her off (which I don't necessarily want to do)?

Why not have your cake and eat it?

Just tell her you're not after a committed exclusive relationship but you still have a great time together and want to keep seeing her, it's just that you're both free to do whatever you want when you're not together.

That way you can continue sarging without lying or cheating. This won't work 100% of the time, but if everything's going well, the sex is good, she likes you, and you've framed the relationship the right way from the beginning, i.e. not buying her shit, supplicating, calling her your gf, etc, then she usually will accept.

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