Anybody have ideas for solo sarging in bars and what not? I always feel a little lonerish when I do this but I can't always find people to go out with me. In all honesty I'm down to go out every night to get better at this, but what do you guys think about this?

I did all of my basic training alone!

There werent that many PUAs around at the time, at least not where I come from so not much choice.

Plus, if you are out alone you have a better chance of learning. If you go out with a wing, you end up drinking or talking game without actually gaming...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Thanks Ezo,

you pretty much just signed my permission slip to go out tonight haha

You can always tell girls you are waiting for friends to arrive or your friends went to another bar and you have to finish your drink/close your tab.

But when going alone to bars I feel its best to move fast. Approach women, get like 2 or 3 numbers and then leave the place. If you stick around the fact that you are alone becomes more obvious... unless you like prolonged gaming where you talk to the some girl for 20 minutes.

If your goal is to hook-up the same night... then it doesn't matter. Just focus on my first sentence.

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Yeh, what Ezo said.

I started out alone, but after a week or so I met a group of PUA's. I spent a while sarging with them. It was great for learning and stuff. But I could never be absolutely 100% confident with them around.

For me theres just something about being in a room full of complete strangers. No matter how bad you mess up, you dont have to go back to "the guys" who all saw it from the other side of the room and are never gonna let you forget it.

Plus. If you go it alone, its either sink or swim. The only problem is you better work extra hard on social proofing yourself. Not many people go out to pubs and clubs alone- so when your alone people aren't going to want to know you.

Usually when I go out. I hit on one of the hired guns from the minute I walk in (just because out of everybody there she has to be nice and cant blow you out in front of everyone).

So hit on her and then every now and then go back and talk to her. If anyone asks about your friends. Shes your gf (or friend) but some guy has being turning up every night and harrassing her. So your there tonite to see this guy and see what his problem is. He hasnt turned up yet, but your trying to keep your distance incase he realises your her bf and then change the subject really fast. Thats what works for me. But Im sure you can probably think up a few yourself.

Oh, if you pick the hottest hired gun in the place it does wonders for your DHV. Just pray some guy doesnt kiss her when your still there. Happened me 2 nights ago. I was absolutely gobsmacked and didnt know what to say to the 2 guys I was talking to at the time.

Or better YET

You can actually say your going out alone to meet people.. Usually people see it as a good thing

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

I usually go it alone myself. Even if I have mates there I tend to leave them and go do my thing.

Going it alone is the only way I reckon. If the girl asks why you're out alone just tell them you felt like some company, but all your friends are wankers and were busy or flaked on you. Social proof a big group though so you don't look like a weirdo.