i wanted to approach a really beautiful girl this afternoon, but for some reason, I was so nervous. What can i do? I wanted to but i just couldn't? Please don't be mean!

AA - common practice....

1. you cant start off getting rid of this by starting lower- hb5 - 6 etc...

2. realise she is a normal person and enjoys a good conversation as much as you do..

3. 3 second rule. its not in concrete - but it is there fo ra reason - the more you think about it, the less chance you will go and talk to her..

4. dont try think of the 'perfect' opener - there ius no such thing as one.. "hi, how are you?' will do.... it may be a 10 second conversation, it may be a 30 minute convo - either way - once youve approached, youve succeded!!

5. dont put the pussy on a pettlestool "to quote a show'

just some ides...

use the search - there are heaps more!!

Ming. Sorry dude but you are dead wrong on one point. There is one perfect opener. Just one. Ready? Here it is: "Hi. I'm HLTW. What's your name?"

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Here is another question i want to ask, when i'm talking to a beautiful girl, I don't feel like saying anything rude (neg)...i feel like being nice to her cuz she is being nice to me...does anyone have this problem?

Every girl loves a little playful neg... even if they are being ridiculously nice.

Just the other night i was at a party and was in a conversation with these two really nice girls... I just leaned in and asked how much on a scale from 1 to 10 do you love me and the girl said "8 1/2 if youre lucky".... she gave me a compliment neg... so i got her back by saying "2 1/2 if youre lucky" but you have to make sure it's playful... maybe throw in a wink yaknow?

hope i helped at all? hahaha kinda new to the forum



and and Hungry like the wolf, thanks for the opener hahahahaha im def gonna mess around with that

Ming, its pedestal not pettle stool.

inmate, everyone is nice to her. If she is nice to you its all the more reason to neg her, make her work for it. Be playful with your negs. Smile and laugh when you get to the negs.

Change that line to "2 1/2 if you'll also do my laundry."

inmate
There's a sociology concept called the 'halo effect'. It states that beautiful people are always percieved as being more nicer, open, and kinder than people who are ugly. I've read the actual research papers and there are significant differences between them.

So "Generally", beautiful/attractive women have grown up with people be very nice to them. Not to mention every AFC out there bending over backwards just so that'll she'll smile at them and make them think they have a chance to fuck her. WOMEN KNOW THIS! WOMEN ABUSE IT! AND WOMEN WILL USE/HAVE USED IT ON YOU!

So what happens when she talks to a guy who treats her like a good friend but also calls her on her shit when she tries it? Well she's not gonna fuck you right away if that's what your thinking. Rather, she's interested. She wonders why her beauty doesn't manipulate you. And the more you prove it doesn't work on you, the more she wants to know about you.

You become Different from everyone other AFC.

As for getting rid of this effect on you? Easy, treat them like everyone else. Don't do "special favours" she can damn well do herself and call her on it (i.e. Are your fuckin' legs broken? *sarcastic*). When she tries the "sweet innocent" act call her on it. And above all, NEVER TALK ABOUT HOW BEAUTIFUL she is. She knows she's pretty and people point it out everyday to her.
Always look her in the eye and never 'check her out' in front of her. The best way to get over that one is talking to people on the beach. It's a test on inner strength, but the rewards are bigger.