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PostPosted: Thu Oct 25, 2007 12:51 am 
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Ok so the other I'm talking to a girl and her friend I know kinda well. I make some joke and as we're walking down the hall they begin complimenting me like crazy. They've done it to me a couple times.

"Nice hat"
Other girl:"I like your shoes."
"Did you get a haircut?"
Other girl: "Nice shirt."
"I like the air pockets on those shoes. They look cool."

I didn't know what to say I just acted kinda annoyed and kept walking.

What the hell was that suppost to mean and how should I have responded?

I was gonna neg them, "You guys sounds like your suffering from CC."

"Whats that?"

"Compulsion Complimenting."


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i'm not an expert, but it looks to me as they just did it to amuse themselves... You should neg them both :lol:


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 25, 2007 12:58 am 
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Well they one girl I'm pretty sure is interested in me, also, her friend has given me IOI's also. I dunno if they're just being a tease or maybe seeing who I would respond to.


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i don't know. last weekend (as in my topic- egoknockout) i had about 6 IOI's, obvious IOI's, with this one chik, and all we did all night was fighting :lol:
(not proud of that)


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Im new so i could be wrong.

It seems to me like they are, without knowing it, trying to Neg you.

If you picked up PUA after you met them maybe they are reacting to that.


Id say you shoulda negd them back with something like you mentioned or...

"Ladies, ladies, one at a time...take a number."

or

"Wow, do you guys always talk at the same time?"

or

"Whats with 20 questions, are you guys cops?"


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i might be wrong but could be that they are testing u, i f they r interested


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I like your CC neg but for some reason, I think you thought of it way after the fact.

They were teasing you. And you acting annoyed only encouraged them.

My response:

Ah, the sweet little nothings both of you are whispering in my ear. You two need to step it up though if you want any chance of winning me over.

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They're teasing you. The other posters have good ideas on how to respond. You're being negged. Practice retaliatory negs or freeze outs. DHV yourself. Doesn't sound promising though.


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Ok so the other I'm talking to a girl and her friend I know kinda well. I make some joke and as we're walking down the hall they begin complimenting me like crazy. They've done it to me a couple times.

"Nice hat"
Other girl:"I like your shoes."
"Did you get a haircut?"
Other girl: "Nice shirt."
"I like the air pockets on those shoes. They look cool."

I didn't know what to say I just acted kinda annoyed and kept walking.

What the hell was that suppost to mean and how should I have responded?

I was gonna neg them, "You guys sounds like your suffering from CC."

"Whats that?"

"Compulsion Complimenting."
You should have said..

"It would look better on your bedroom floor." :lol:

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They're teasing you. The other posters have good ideas on how to respond. You're being negged. Practice retaliatory negs or freeze outs. DHV yourself. Doesn't sound promising though.
I wouldn't freeze out, because then you will probably look like you are pouty for them negging you. Doesn't it drive you nuts when a chick gets pouty because you negged her?


Starbuck, I wouldn't use anything so straight forwardly cliche. If it wasn't a cliche, then sure, but because its a cliche, then you just sound like an AFC. Not sure if you were joking or not.

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I thought a freeze out could give him time to re-frame if he wants to take it romantic/sexual. Right now he's lower than LJBF, he's a cartoon.


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I thought a freeze out could give him time to re-frame if he wants to take it romantic/sexual. Right now he's lower than LJBF, he's a cartoon.
Not necissarily. They're probably just busting his balls. I do this to sarges all the time, this is what David D teaches you to do, and I have seen tons of girls that are in relationships do it to their bfs that they love dearly, just for shits and giggles. Its just human nature to poke fun at people and more so at people we like.

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Mystery's response to a compliment:
"You're attracted to me, aren't you?"


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Starbuck, I wouldn't use anything so straight forwardly cliche. If it wasn't a cliche, then sure, but because its a cliche, then you just sound like an AFC. Not sure if you were joking or not.
Yeah, good point.

It was a joke. Although I've had more than a couple of girlfriends that used to think it was quite funny. Of course I was always serious. It most certainly would look better on my bedroom floor as I'm banging the heck out of little miss hottie. :lol:

Talking about or referencing sex with strange and/or young women is always better done indirectly. That is until you have sex with them. Then it's entirely ok. Sometimes the game doesn't make a whole lot of rationale sense.

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Mystery's response to a compliment:
"You're attracted to me, aren't you?"
That's a great line.

And a great way to pull the rabbit out of the hat.

Making the transition from casual attraction to open attraction is, IMO, one of the most difficult transitions there is.

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