If a girl asks for something like "hey can I have some gum" or "can I have a sip of that" what should I say. I don't want to give in and be like sure, your hot. On the other hand I don't want to be mean and say no. What do you guys do?

Give her the gum....

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at this point i might say something like " actually i was gonna ask if you wanted one" with a cheeky little smile

what does everyone else think?

dont give it to her... if you give it to her you're just like every other guy in there and the point is be different. i wouldnt hold the girls drink who took my sweatshirt to another room of a party for me so i wouldnt have to wear it and she kept on to me.

NEG.
Gum: *sniff* Yeah you need it more than I do *grin*
Drink: Yes. *pause* The real question is will I let you. *grin*

Any response you get from her will force her to qualify herself to you.

Had this happen once after I handed out some skittles to a group (btw great dhv and a great idea I learned) while one girl was away... She cut through some roped section on the way back and asked "don't i get any candy"... I simply said "no you dont get any" and followed it with something like "your the one acting like vip, you should be hookin us up". Seemed to have a decent reaction

Make her work for it. I like to say maybe when they ask me for something, or I'll say I'll think about it and smile. Sometimes I forget, and when they remind me I'll say I'm still thinking. Joke around with them about it, just be sure to give in after a while. This will really only work when you are hanging out with the person and know them, if it is someone sitting next to you in class they can simply ask another person around them. At this point, you stick a stick of gum in your mouth and hand them the empty wrapper. But make sure it looks like a real stick.