Hey

Well, one time, at this rave. I was just dancing around, I'm a pretty good dancer. And yea, this girl who I met the day before comes up and chats to me, says I'm a good dancer. 30 minutes later i asked her if she wanted to take a breather and go sit outside.

I walk outside, it's bloody freezing, and there is not as many people as I thought there would be (cas' before I went in most people were outside). We sat on a curb and yea...felt abit wierd cas' she was hell into me, I was on drugs so I was just really talkative . As soon as I knew what could have been going on, I just stopped talking, then she kept iniating conversations and kept coming closer to me, to the point where she was in my face. I would have hookt up wiv her but you see, I was rather inexperienced. Afterwards we just basically walked back inside, I know she was disappointed.

Since then, I've been to another two raves where the same girl is there. Seems she thinks were just friends now cas' I didn't pull the trigger. How do I let this girl know that I'm willing to be more? thanks

Umm.. you know that thing you didn't do before. With the kino and the kissing. Yeah, you kinda have to do that eventually. Thats how they know it isn't a friendship.

Personally though, I would inform her that you were waiting to see if she was gonna be one of those "one time" raver chicks. You wanted to see if she was really into the scene before taking her out. That is IF you want to actually date/see/whatever her. If your looking for a one time thing.. well then I dunno. This way she will think that all this time she was qualifying herself to you. And that you were waiting for HER to finally finish.


EvoJ

tell her you were waiting to see if she was cool enough. You don't have to say anything fancier than that, and don't elaborate if she asks you to. Just kiss her instead.

Thats quite simple - make them jealous. Up your, status. Make her see your with another girl. It could be just a friend or a girl that really like you.

Just make it look like your having a good time without her. And that "since your her friend" or "since she's your friend" (which ever up your ego) - you can just ignore the fact that she/you are interested in one another. And now she's losing "it" ( "it" as in you and more than a friendship relation ).

Do it for a 2 weeks or so. But also make it known to her (not rudely) that if she comes over to push her rank up, by flirting , that you have a girl with you and show her that she's nothing more than just a friend (ofcourse your giving mixed signals - kino ... whatever your methods are) ..

Remember your already in the almost friend zone to her. So losing her isn't a problem. Thats something you need to get into your head. But if it works properly which, well for me it always has. They will keep trying with you.

Now you've turned the situation from you trying to her trying. So when you do ditch the other girl. The girl you met at the club is now - well your no longer in the friend zone, and she has to work harder for you.