The girl I'm with is a major GK and I'm sick of it. I can't do anything with her. She believes handholding is bad until after dating and she cant date til she's 18. Any tips on how to change her mindset on this?

Word from the wise: "Ditch the bitch" - yours truly

Yeah, except she has every quality I'm looking for. This is the type of girl I'd like t date but I don't wanna get rid of her since she has a few beliefs. Why not make her a bit of a BK?

Deleted - OP is suffer from Stage 4 Oneitis

....Anyone else, preferably with a few ideas?

Hey, you know what they say, oneitis is dangerous man. What she has is hard to get rid of. Ditch er. For all you know, that might even do the trick! Maybe if you just let her go, she will want more!

It's not really much of oneitis, I've made out with 3 other girls and f-closed a couple after we told each other how we feel. So I don't feel like I'm attached. more like I think she could be a reasonable match. Any other ideas? I tried the ditching one....she cried for 5 months and wanted me back but it didn;t change much. any ideas? I'm thinking of just telling her I need action from her but without sounding needy

Well, It could work. Just go for broke. If it fails, so what? No one got hurt;)

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GK?.....BK?.....English please?

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GK=good kid BK=bad kid

I concur with said opinion supra


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ditch the bitch

If you wan't to date her, just do it properly. Kiss her and slowly escalate.

Eventually, she will be your "BK".

My current girl had been in multiple relationships, but was still a virgin at 18. I slept with her after 2 nights. Not cos I'm a vulture who wanted a challenge, but because I was very into her and somehow that made me escalate better than ever.

What did I do? I went on a date with her, kissed her spontaneously and sexually, but was very respectful. You have to be, so that she is completely comfortable with you. After that we watched Lion King at my house and cuddled as if we were a couple.

The next time I saw her we were close again, playing on the piano in my house, where I was cutely kissing her on the cheek. This is all about respect, her feeling like she's been going out with you for ages. She acually said "I feel like I've known you for 10 years, I feel like I know you so well"

After that, you get into a position (like on a couch, or on your bed or whatever) while watching a movie/having a discussion or whatever. You kiss and escalate, and then (with clothes on) you open her legs and kiss her while thrusting a little. Then you turn her on when shes hot with your hands. Over the course of 20 minutes at least (with this kind of girl you can't rush anything) you take off her clothes, and your shirt, until youre both in underwear. You keep the flow, thrusting, only now you have less clothes on. She will be major excited.

Most guys will say "DON'T ASK IF SHES READY JUST FUCK HER COS YOU'RE THE MAN"
And yeah, this is totally true. But considering she hasn't before, I would instead first say "I wan't to be inside you"

She will probably respond with "I wan't you inside me." And that, my dear friend, is your cue.

I call it the "Slow and Steady wins the race", as it builds massive trust like nothing else can (every girl I've slept with has said she feels like she's bonded really strongly with me, even one night stands) and simultaneously has her extremely aroused, partly because she feels so safe.

Good luck