Hey guys, new here, and I got a situation.

There's this girl that i liked for a while, recently we've been friends with benefits having hookups and all that, but i want to make her my GF, but she tells me she doesnt like dating, now at first i thought she was just being nice and trying not to hurt my feelings, but then i found out she really doesnt date, she has only had one boyfriend and that was ages ago.

I talked to her about it, and apparently she had some bad experience, and she doesnt like attachment. I tried showing her that it's ok to have a relationship by asking to give us a go, but she's still reluctant and now she realised she just wants to be friends.

Then i talked to her and she told me she did like and was attracted to me, but didnt want to be more than friends... i'm so confused cos it makes no sense and i don't know what to do. So any advice would be appreciated