Alright, so there's this cute chick in my class. I've only known her three days, seeing as how our class together is only one day a week and we've only had three classes so far. We talk in class and flirt with one another, but it's kinda hard to read the situation. On one hand, she always seems to make sure that she sits next to me, she flirts with me, and she even likes for me to walk with her after class. On the other hand, I got her number the first night I met her but she never answers her phone or calls back when I leave a message. She even asked me (after one class) to come and kick it with her that weekend, and she said that she would call me and let me know when she was off of work so that we could get together but she never called. I'm just trying to get a read on the situation. Should I stick it out or keep it moving?

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Bdot

I will tell you now what everyone else will say

Your giving her too much control, your the man with the balls, resumt your rightful biological role and take your power

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'Oh my, you sir are the Moriarty of self awareness and personnal refelection'

What a title!

lets put it this way.. have the balls to do it and don't give her room to say no. tell her in class your taking her out..

here's a personal example from today with a friend of mine who i'm taking to lunch on sunday who's a flake also.
this is taken from the text messages

ME: It's been way too long since we've hung out. what do i have to do.. take you to lunch?
Katie: yeah, sorry i know i'm a flake but you know my schedule
ME: it's still not an excuse for being a flake. I'm taking you to lunch on sunday, where do you want to go
Katie: blah blah blah blah
ME: sounds good, and what time should i pick you up
Katie: 1 sound good? see you then


just take control and use KISS which stands for KEEP IT SIMPLE STUPID.. less is more remember that