Okay, so I'm new to this, and from what I've observed, going on traditional first dates w/ a girl you #closed is not a good idea....

So if taking a girl out to dinner or a movie is not a good idea, then where should I take the girl on a first date?

I thought about taking her to a bar, but I didn't ask her about her age and she looks around 19-22. I'm 23, so I would prefer to go to a bar if she's of age, but what are some other good places to take a girl out on first get together???

There's a tiny community park by where I live, but nobody really goes there, and I REALLY think it'll be boring and awkward if I take her there.....Any ideas on where I could take her???

if she's the laid back competitive type definitely take her to a bar because you can make her jealous later on by getting attention from other HBs.

otherwise, take her to sushi, lunch, coffee, etc so you can get a feel for her since it seems like you don't know her that well. sushi is always the best bet down here because just the nature of it makes negging 100x more fun

take her to a gay bar she is gonna love this

I agree... IMO setting up a short "date" can be good if you don't think your gunna get a laid that date. It allows you to build rapporte, set anchors, and pace time. Also! If things are going great and you can feel out the situation and either extend to a F-close or if your still not 100% sure *-close and eject when she wants just a bit more. That bit more will snowball into the whole thing DAMN QUICK!