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PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:01 pm 
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I'm seeing a girl and I'm pretty sure it's going to escalate to sex soon. But she's already asking a lot of questions (my past relationships and stuff), so it's only a matter of time before she asks how many ppl I've been w/. I'm a 23 year old virgin, but I'm decent looking, so it's not very believable. Should I be honest w/ her or lie?


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It's a matter of personal preference.

If you attracted them enough to want to sleep with you,being a virgin would be a plus,as it would make the girl feel that she's you're first and that it's somewhat special.

On the other end,a girl may also become disinterested,due to thinking you lack experience,but this RARELY happens(Like,0.02% out of 100.).

Regardless,best to be honest.If you lie,it will come back like a boomerang and hit you in your ass.


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Read David Shade's sex guide before you 2 do it, this guy is a sex GENIUS.
There's some very good stuff on positions, foreplay and oral in the mmcollab document if you can find it.
I'd say, just admit you're a virgin man. Being a pua is about showing the good side of who you are, not being someone you're not. At least, that's the ultimate goal.

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I agree w/ you guys, and was leaning towards telling her if she asked. The only problem is that she thinks that I'm a player (and likes it), so I'm worried that she'll lose interest.


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In that case she may not believe you anyway. I wanted to be so good for my first time I did tons of reading and gave friends sex advice before I lost my virginty and then when I did, and told the girl she didnt beleive me. So she may just think you are goofing around if she thinks you are a player, especially if you act like you know what you are doing.


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I agree w/ you guys, and was leaning towards telling her if she asked. The only problem is that she thinks that I'm a player (and likes it), so I'm worried that she'll lose interest.
If she thinks you're a player, why would she ask?

Just make sure you don't suck in bed (no pun intended).

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She'll know... C'mon guys, honestly, how many of you were champs your first time in the sack? If she asks, tell her, if you lie you'll risk looking like you have no idea what you're doing. One day you too will be the "iron chef of pounding vag".


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Good point. At least she'll give me some leeway if I'm not the shit the first time.

What I'm more worried about is that she won't be into me as much. Right now I think she's into me b/c she thinks I'm a ladies man. I'm afraid that if I tell her, she'll either lose interest or make me wait longer before we have sex.


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I wish I could tell you an answer one way or the other, but who knows... All that I know for certain is that if she asks you--don't lie.


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You'll be fine she probably won't even ask.
Just make sure when it does happen u dont bust a nut after just 3 pumps
now that'll get you talked about

but on a real note just have fun

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Just make sure when it does happen u dont bust a nut after just 3 pumps
now that'll get you talked about
Just curious did SouthernCross blow his load his first time after just 3 pumps:)
haha

oh an jojo tell her to be please gentle with you :wink:

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Oh no lil momma SouthernCross was a Champion!!

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A Champion oh really :wink:

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well you can always watch the 40 year old movie, then ask her about what she would do or how she'd react if a guy shes dating was a virgin. Just make sure its one of those questions that sounds like you asked all because you are watching/ or just watched the movie.
If she thinks youre a player, she wouldn't thinktwice about this question relating to you. Just make sure its one of those "in the moment" questions. Let her answer then you should at least have some idea as to how she may react when you tell her.

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