So my now ex girlfriend of 2 years head of heals for me, goes away for springbreak for 1 week, I couldn't go cause I had to work (someone has to pay the bills) anyways she kept in touch for the first 4days with calls and texts all the time sayin how much she misses me and loves me but after that day 5,6,7 text messages only no more love you or miss you.. So Red Flag came up in my head something is up so I pretty much know something if up... She comes back I come to see her and she tells me we have to talk, yup knew this one is coming, she breaks it off tells me she can't be in a relationship she needs to find herself hope we can be friends still etc Garbage to me. anywyas go for a week without talkin to her, she messaged me to go hangout with her and told me she misses me. So we hangout So everything almost seems fine like old times making out with her and then I try to close... No dice I get the No.. Alrite hung out with her a few more times and then tryed again and I scored. Did that a few more times. So I go away for the weekend met some new girls though a friend talkin to them both now, the ex calls me and tells me we can't talk to each other anymore its to hard etc so alrite I agree I stop talkin to her... I move on I've got 2 girls on the go I just met.. So i go without talkin to the ex for 2 weeks and then she calls me drunks from the bars tellin me she loves me and misses me. I told her I thought we weren't speakin she asked me to hangout again so I go hangout with her score with her again, but then she asked me who theses girls are on facebook that keep messaging me, I just said their friends. guess she got pissed, not sure I have hungout with her since she just texts me... Now my question is should I keep her around as a friends with benefits type deal cause i've known her for so long? or should I just stop talkin to her? I won't get back together with her thats just out of the question cause I dont know what happen but pretty much you can't make a hoe a housewife.

Mike,

I'm in the almost exact same situation. Right now I'm keeping my girl as a FWB type of deal. I'm going to warn you, if you choose this path then she's going to most likely push to go back into a relationship! Whatever you do, don't go back into one with her. It will just show her that she can get away with this bullshit and everything will be alright. It seems like you're doing alright with girls so you don't really need another girl on the side. However, if you decide you want her as one just prepare to face the pressure from her to get back with her. If you don't want this pressure or hassle from her then just send her on her way.

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