ok so i have been stuck on this point, and i dont know what would be a good way to get over this so need some input from you guys:

i have picked up salsa and am ok at it. since getting involved with this community i pay more attention to dressing well when going out and body language. because of being able to dance ok, i attract women at clubs. but at the point i need to bounce or lead her to my place or hers, i sort of panic. i panic thinking what if this girl has some STD? and this kills the interaction, because then i try to be polite and eject from the set.

this has happened night after night. it frustrates me to no end and i really need to get over this. i am sure the same thoughts run through the PUA community - how do you'll deal with this anxiety and get rid of this fear? needless to say, i always carry protection when heading to clubs.

sometimes married women will show interest and i know with more effort to close on my part, i can f-close these women. but it is morally wrong and i am definitely not a home-wrecker, i got into this community for fun.

how do i get over this hurdle and get to the SNL? your help is appreciated.

Stop making excuses and do it.