so i work out three times a week at the gym, in really good shape and ripped for my size, 5'8 150. anyway, i have the confidence i just don't have the delivery. today i used the opinion opener during lunch at a group of 2 girls, worked, no number though but i was content that i did it, used the nationality opener after a class with this native russian chick, worked, no number though, i was fine with that, and then i tried the gym tonight and fumbled. i did the "i hate to be the guy thathits on you at the gym, but i was wondering what ab workouts you do" while next to her on the mats for ab exercises. she laughed a little, was decent but i realized i left out "i am going to be that guy today" after the conversation. anyway, i picked this girl bc she was by herself, and i had to tap her bc she was listening to music. i WANTED to approach these two sexy girls on the mat, where there was a space for me in the middle but i pussied out. anyway, i need new openers for the gym bc i can't use the same shit on all the girls, alot of people are in there regularly i see. i have the look, i am confident, and progressing as an alpha. where are my talking points? where do i go from here? i will be content even with having a funny, cocky good convo with a hot chick, i don't even need a number. tips would be appreciated -Rye

I've had a lot of discussions regarding approaching girls at the gym, and you're in the same predicament as I am.

I'm not a bad looking guy, and there are ridiculous amount of HB's that work out at my gym, so I get occasional IOI's from HB's(eye contacts and smiles, walking past me for no reason, etc., etc.)

I think you and I both have the same problem that we're too focused on using lines and openers instead of paying attention to delivery and demeanor.

For me there's NO SET LINES AND OPENERS I think that's 'ideal' to use at the gym. Just think about a topic you want to discuss and approach her with it, you'll probably give a more confident vibe than trying to use a recited line. Good luck bro.

aw maaaaaan you shoulda gone between those girls and said "thanks for saving me a spot", perfect opportunity

lol it'll probably happen again

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just start demonstraiting
your HVD's show the
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for them!

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HB9 on the left HB7 on the right on the ab mats. i did it and said "thanks for saving me a spot!" the HB9 was unresponsive and the HB7 moved over to let me in. i then started talking to the HB7, the HB9 walked away when i turned over. need a better way of approaching in the gym

Next time;

"Next time you save me a spot, make sure it has a little more room."

sit down, lean over to HB+...

"Seriously, slid over a bit"

Do some exercises, then ask her for assistance holding your feet. Tease her about not holding the tight/hard enough.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

This is a good one, man u shoulda tried gettin in there it coulda worked out well..

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When she's having trouble with a certain weight I cheer her "C'mon you can do it" She'll feel a little insecure and won't be able to avoid laughing.

good one guns, i like that one. simple, common sense, what only guys with balls say. good one.

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No problem glad to help.

Walk by a HB at the gym and make it look like you just saw her shoes. "O my god, where did you get those shoes?" Be enthusiastic, otherwise it looks fake. She will tell you where she got them. Then tell her that you went shopping with your sister for 3 hours looking for those exact shoes and describe them to her. She will laugh! From there ask the HB for her name, shake her hand and don't tell her your name. See if she asks for your name (look for the IOI). If she doesn't, simply tell her thanks and move on confidently and you can always approach another day saying thanks again, which will give you another opportunity to tell her another opener, but this time neg her in the process.

If she does, continue with jelous girl friend but make sure you give a time constraint and neg her within jelous girl friend. After she tells you her opinion, tell her that you she needs her own talk show like ophra. Tell her that you watch ophra every chance you get and how you got hooked on the show after you got hurt at work and had to sit at home for 2 weeks.

You can leave at this point (or take it to higher level (DHV) if you are feeling it) and approach her another day and tell her how great her advise was for your friend and how awsome she is. Find out what music she likes and invite her along with her friends to meet up with you and your friends at a club that plays that sort of music, where you can use a wingman to isolate her after you have approached her friends. At this point start to DHV.

I've had success doing it, but I have to change it up on the initial O my god opener and jelous girl friend.

Let me know how this works fellow PUAs. And I'm always open for new lines.