Sup yalls...I'm new to this forum and I need some advice regarding approaching a HB9.5

I'm from SoCal and I go to the gym regularly. Lot of young peeps go to this particular gym and there are ridiculous amount of HB's there.

There's this HB9.5 that I see there occassionally (saw her like 3-4 times) and she gave me some potential sign of interest (eye contact, walking past me for no reason, etc.).

So next time I see her I want to at least say hey and possibly make small talk....but somebody told me that asking for her name is not recommended. Is this true???

If I don't even decide to introduce myself, is approaching her with a random question a good idea?

Any help would be appreciated, thanx!

don't ask her name or introduce yourself until she asks yours or you make her laugh first

A lot of guys over think what they should or shouldn't do and as a result come across as incongruent - therefore my advice is to you is if you want to ask her name, then ask her her name, don't wait for a million IOIs or for her to make eye contact with you etc. etc.

hmm my experience at the gym is that everyone says hi to each other and its not awkward if you say hi to someone youve never met. so next time she walks past you, give her a nod or grin or whatever floats your boat, and greet her casually, she'll greet u back for sure. then if you start a convo with her later, it wont be as weird and out of the blue.

introducing yourself makes you an AFC, too much of a "nice guy" and if you ever watch or read mystery, you know what im talking about. nice guys are not uncommon, hot girls will know what to do with them. so just play it cool. run some routines or do whatever you want, but my suggestion isnt to flat out introduce yourself, do it in a creative manner.

a word of advice, if theres tons of attractive girls at your gym, you dont wanna totally fuck this one up, cuz then other people will notice and you dont wanna make a whole gym ruined stock. so good luck

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Yeah, I know what you mean Trezza...sometimes I worry too much about saying the perfect line instead of focusing on my delivery and my demeanor.

But I've seen this HB get hit on quite a few times, and I'm thinking she's tired of deliberate pick-up attempts. So my question is, does it seem like an obvious pick-up attempt to ask her a random question as an opener (if I don't use the introduction approach)?

Don't think of it as an opener for a pick up then. Think of it as trying to start a good conversation with her. I mean seriously, with all those horrible pickup lines she hears from guys all the time she has to be STARVING for a good conversation. So go and feed her with one. Make it interesting and exciting and thought provoking. Get her to respond with not just her mind but her emotions as well. Oh yeah... and she got so caught up in the conversation she forgot to get your name.. what was it?


Exactly my point. Don't ask her name because you don't need it until she becomes important to you. Don't give her yours until you become important enough for her to ask for it.

IMHO thats the way to go.

EvoJ

You may ask her name...when it is time(After it's clear she's interested).No problem with that.DONT tell her YOURS until she asks.Her asking your name is an IOI.

This should clear confusion.

Start a conversation with her. Talk a bit. If she gives you a few more IOI's and seems to enjoy talking to you, you can proceed to ask her name.