Hello,

This sumer after getting out of a long relationship a friend of mine suggested the game for a read to help me get back in the sadle. After the game I was curiouse (like most people) and continued on to reading 48 laws of power, art of seduction, watched mystery dvd, and read up on NLP.

After some practice I now have no problem going out and establishing a alpha male personality, kiss closing, number closing ect. Latley I've been thinking about this question though, when does sarging a girl stop?

For instance:

At a party last week I opened up a HB9 and we realized we were both in eachother high school class. After some negging and usual PUA routines I noticed we had great rapport togather and I could have done this without sarging her. Throughout the week I bumped into her a few more times at partys. Now here I am on the brink of going out on a actual date with her and Im thinking "Do I need to game her?". For some insight I don't plan on having a relationship with this girl (or any other girl) at this point, right now I beilive you can get the same things out of a relationship without actually dating someone.

All the books that I've read have never discussed relationships past the one night stand (most PUA books are about getting laid). What effect does negging a girl have on someone who you have an established rapport with? Will gamming her at this point make her more crazy for me or just make her uninterested?

This all seems so confusing to me. Any insight will help, thanks!

your question is very interesting. PUA doesn't mean not being yourself, I think. Instead, I take it to be that it makes a better you, more knowledgeable about girls and stuff. Many times people who try to be "themselves" ask friends or family what to do in a given situation with a girl. Before knowing about the PUA community I did lots of things I read about now (cocky and funny, not show interest, not call often, neg her if she is giving a hard time, its good to be seen with cool people around you, etc). The PUA community is like a super source for such advice and knowledge. I would like to see what other members of the board have to say about this.


regards.

Thats true, my sentence didn't mean to come off like that. For instance at first negging was something very hard for me to get a graspe of, because my first thought is to always be nice and compliment (thats just how I am).

When to stop gaming her? That's an interesting question...

For which I have no certain answer for .

Well we all know that we don't have an infinite amount of material and at one point we'll need to "become ourselves" again. I think that when that happens, to just stay congruent to who you were when you first met your target. As long as you weren't weaving lies and bsing about yourself that shouldn't be too hard.

Comments?

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