I was just wondering if there are any techniques or anything to pickup girls without even haveing to talk to them. The reason i ask is because last night i was at a club and this girl who was dancing with this other guy kept on smiling at me and yes i know i should have approached but i pussyed out. So what i was wondering was is there something i did correctly or did i just get lucky?

You smile back?

after the second time i caught her looking at me ya

I've seen some guys on the Irish boards try this. Even in our slutty, slutty society it's still hard.

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Plenty of eye contact, walk over to her on the dance floor, smile if she is looking at you then dance behind her. Slowly back up so that when shes dancing, her bum is rubbing up against you. She will love it and im sure you will too. If it gets her attention just smile at her and go with the flow, get dancing with her.
No words, just plenty of kino!

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sounds good only problem though is what do you do when theres a guy behind her dancing with her? Should i just cut him off or is there a more subtle way?

Its a pretty difficult situation here, without saying anything, its almost impossible. But i suppose the guy has got to move from her at some point, either to dance a different way, go to the toilet, get a drink...etc. Theres your opportunity, or
have one of your mates dance behind them and you walk into her line of sight, signal to her to ask if she wants a drink, show her your glass or something, just make it obvious your asking her if she wants one. If she doesnt respond or responds in a bad way or the guy responds in a bad way, just pretend you were signalling to your friend behind them.
I dunno how well this will work but it seems plausible

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well i responded to you earlier here but somehow it didn't post up.


Yes, simply put you didn't advance towards her or even go in her general direction to let her know you were interested then yeah you pussied out.

Another thing you could have tried which is very bold and sink or swim is go right up to her and pull a "are you having fun hun? shall we go now? or mind if i step back in. it's bold but if you succeed she'll have the utmost respect for your boldness. if you fail however you look like a total asshole

i agree with them, just go dance near her when the guy is gone and make sure she notices you, smile, eye contact and whatever, and slowly get closer then grind with her. pretty simple.

after that, it should be alright, you can start a conversation if you want.

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U IDIOT..IF SHE SMILED AT U SHE WAS ATTRACTED..
ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE..SO WHATEVER U SAY FROM THERE ON DOESNT MATTER...AS LONG AS U SHOW HER U LIKE HER..
BUT DONT BE TOO INTO HER SHE HAS TOO EARN THAT FROM U.
GOT TO A DIFFERENT PART OF THE VENUE AS IF SHE KEPT SMILING AT U SHE WOULD HAVE STOPPED DANCING AND APPROACH U OR STAND BY U OR MADE HERSELF AVAILABE.. ..PROXIMITY.. IF SHES NEAR YOU THEN APPROACH HER OR WHATEVER..NEG HER LIKE "U DONT DANCE DAT MUCH DO U"?
OR SO ON..
RSOE, HELK

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One of the fundamental skills of being a PUA is effective utilization of language. I'd really hope you start practicing that on this forum because those caps are bugging me.

i agree with RSOE16 and what he said about proximity

but so many capps ahhh...

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keep on smiling back
show her ur interested
and once she's alone go have
a chat with her, move
in...

The only time I've had to picking up a girl without talking is when there was a combination of drinking and dancing involved. Ended up dancing with her and then soon after bounced our way into the next room. K-close, without any english involved.

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my C&F motion would be something like this...

If she is obviously fixated on you..

Kiss your palm
Gradually bring down your hand to your lips
Blow the kiss over to her
But, instantly grab it, wipe it off
Put the imaginary kiss in your pocket.

I am still very much an AFC, but I break out of my
shell with a vengeance when I get some liquid
courage in me. My goal is to not need such tools
to pickup.