This is not a PUA question exactly, but I would appreciate any input I can get. A little over a week ago I slept with a 19 year co-worker (HB5). I’m 24 years old and I feel a little skeevy on the whole thing, but whatever she is legal… We’ve hooked up once more since then, and its fairly obvious she likes me. This is really unfortunate because, in short, I am using her to get over a year long cold streak (I have really high standards and some serious AA). Regardless, last night I slept with a 27 year old HB7-8 who works in my building. We’ve been acquaintances for over three years, but I never made a move due to her BF of five years. They lived together until two weeks ago when they broke up and she moved out. I was very forthcoming with the 27 year old about my whole 19 year old situation and sure enough after a night on the town—F-close. Is this 27 year old ‘using me’? Was me sleeping with this barely legal girl DHV? Did the 19 year old just ‘take the edge off’? How come I don’t get any action for a year and in the period of two weeks sleep with two different girls? Thanks for reading my rant…

This actually worked with a guy I worked with. He was 22 and a virgin, I set him up with a girl and got him laid, He became uber confident and decided to discover he has better game than me and i had to start playing the AMOG roll so i could get my cut of the pie(no innuendo intended). the more sex you have the more sex you get, its a downhill snowball affect.

I wouldn't tell anyone that you work with that you hooked up with the UG-5. You know how word spreads.Your value could lower in the workplace. As far as the 7 is concerned; maybe she was long overdue for some lovin' too. As far as she using you sexually...difficult to say; would you really have a problem with it?

Great call The SpermiN8or! ...damn... I have told a couple people and word has spread -- people dont seem to rate her as harshly as I do... I actually dont work with the 7, she works in my building (we're both smokers). She was long over due, and thats why i said, 'using me'. ...Me don't care... Thanks for the advice

Break up after 5 years, 2 weeks later, possible rebound sex

Women want to have sex as much as men do.

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You used the 19 year old, the 29 year old used you.

Lesson here is....everyone uses each other. We all want sex, just for different reasons.

It isn't a bad thing she used you as a rebound, I was a rebound guy to one of my longest relationships. I had sex with her 1 week after she broke up, and we hit it off right away, and stayed together for a long time. That all depends on you though.

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