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| theotherguy | PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 4:22 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Mon Aug 13, 2007 10:35 pm Posts: 47 | | I Haven't really gone out in a while since I left the high school. And the only real connect to the outside world is a AMOG friend who really CBs whenever I try to talk(Not just to girls but to guys to). I guess it's safe to say this has affected my Self esteem and my social status. So I decide that I was going out for a walk. This was a big step for me. I could tell it was a long time cause the when I did the sun burned my eyes a little.
I walked for a while and try to say high to people I didn't know and try to loosen up. I saw a friend I haven't really talk to in a while and said hi to him. He asked me all the normal stuff like.. where have ya been? why aren't in in the high school? xO after all the personal stuff was out of the way the convo was dieing down. He started to talk about how he was in some deep shit with his mom and he was ground for 2weeks I tired to add my 2 cents in but that helped only so much.
When the convo was about to die completely his brother showed up. they started to talk and I started to fade out. when I did talk they kinda looked at me shocked like your still here? at that point I decided to leave.
I'm posting this because if I couldnt even talk to a guy I know, how can I talk to a girl I haven't even met before. and if i'm fading out in a set of people I kinda know already then how am can i lead a set filled with AMOGs and HBs? please any advice will be helpful. and if ya can hock me up with a nooby drill that will get me better at basic conversation.
edit some grammer and made one sentence make scents =P _________________ "more coversations = more interactions = more confidence = better game"
-The Wonderful Ming
Last edited by theotherguy on Thu Sep 06, 2007 5:30 am, edited 1 time in total.
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| theotherguy | PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 5:41 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Mon Aug 13, 2007 10:35 pm Posts: 47 | | I completely understand what ya said about taking up space. the problem is that it's hard for me to keep the conversation going. Even when we were talking it was mostly pluff. He was the only one with something interesting to say.
Also I was going out solo. I met this guy on while I was walking and he's not exactly an AFC. He's nailed his share of HBs and I'm pretty sure he's having having causal sex with at least one of them.
Sorry if ya misunderstood something I wrote. I'm not the best writer. _________________ "more coversations = more interactions = more confidence = better game"
-The Wonderful Ming
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| Whitey | PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:54 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:05 pm Posts: 228 | | maybe because I have ADD being the center of attention is easy for me, yeah a lot of times i end up being "that guy" but who cares? they atleast will remember me.
my way of keeping conversations going is i have 3 conversations in one i.e. 3 topics with one person. my friends are used to it and carry with me. makes life interestng
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