I don't consider myself attractive, but lately I have had a lot of girls walk up to me and open me. There are a lot of posts about what to say to girls and how to approach them. But what do you do and say when they approach you?

Last party I was at my set was approached by a HB9 and she was opening me off all the guys in the group she had to pick me, the guy with nothing to say. After she chatted me up about boring things like school and work she eventually left, cause i blew it. But before I left the party she gave me a smile.

So she obviously was interested in me but how can I keep her interest and move away from the boring topics like school and begin to use some of the skills from this site. Or am already in with her and should I take a different approach?

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Uve fallen victim to not being able to retain interest. The best way to get over this is that when you are in an opened position, have a group of interesting stories, questions, or facts that keep interest. Take up African Drumming, Be an extra in independent films, Take photos. Work up a dynamic personality. The more you diversify ur persona, the more interesting you will be. You will also aquire odd stories and funny situations that you can talk about. These girls meet guys all day that have the same interests and personalities. Be different and when you number close, you will get the call because you stick out. Hope that helps...

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Yes, that does help a lot thank you.

I was stunned that she came to open me because I hadn't even chose a person to approach yet and a girl whom I probably would;ve have tried to open was next to me tapping me on the shoulder for my attention.

I only wish i could've worn something weird to give me more to talk to her about. But i will take your advice to become more interesting when opened.

but i think i was shocked she opened me because it wasn't something i was preparing for because everything you read says that the girl won't make the effort to approach.

If she approaches you, the hard part is over. All you have to do is chat. Dont dwell on a single topic for very long though so the convo doesnt fade. A wingman comes in handy huge at this point. When convo lags your wingman should help pick up the slack, and move the convo foward. A good wingman will have just as many stories as you but all about different things to jump off topic like

Lul in convo......

Wingman: Hey bro you remember when this happened??

PUA: Yeah, that was awesome, I forgot all about that.

Then most women will want to know all about it as long as you have their interest in the first place. Just learn some basic stories and dont dwell on them till the convo dies. Try to transition your stories seemlessly and have a wingman you can trust if you are loosing you lines.