| Listen man that is a tough position. u could have already totally positioned yourself as a friend and that can be a death sentence. But if u haven't, try this; tell her you wanna go out and have a sexy dinner...obviously she will be weird about what you mean. intrigue her by telling her that you and her are "going" out to have dinner at a wonderful restaurant and you are pampering yourselves. Tell her to get dressed up and you will do the same. Also make sure she knows that all other details will be handled by u. The sole purpose of this dinner is to see where you stand. Be well dressed and pick a well revered place in your area to eat. Nothing to pompous, just nice, a place where you and her will be the best dressed (best dressed not overly dressed). maintain eye contact all night, smile, intrigue her. Let her know things about you that she never knew but dont explore too deep...like that you are an artist, or a classical musican, or have a passion for roman greco theatre. Remember to keep some mystery...Make her somewhat impressed but dont over do. Keep it nonchalant. Drop lots of kino.
Hand on the back when u enter through doors. Witty hand grabs, and jokes. The goal is to get back to your house and escalate things...When you get back, if shes still intrigued, tell her a really personal story fake or real, but nothing uncomfortable. Compliment her on something other then her looks, like a connection that you have, that u can tell her everything, something like that. Try to get to her hand and make kino with your thumb on her hand. If she rubs back shes into you. Smile and have great eye contact. Seem interested but cocky. Act like shes interesting but you have so many more facits. This will make her desire you and admire you. Then make sure that you go for a real close. Sense her kino and react accordingly. Also remember, at your place, make sure you pre select the activities carefully. Something that doesn't require you to talk too much, After all you want to close her or find out where she stands. Make everything classy. Be well groomed that evening too. just take a deep breath and relax. She will fall for you if you do this.
Hope that helps,
FlashJAX _________________ Lets Do This Right
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