I think a lot of AFC's read the book. Thats cool, but that doesnt make u a PUA by far. The first step for me (and im still working on it) was to overcome the fear of the approach. Its always there and as mystery put it: never goes away. You just become better at it and approaching and oppening a girl is more natural. I'm not saying u should learn as many openers as u can by heart and just walk around like a social robot. Keep cool mabey have an opener or even better 2 and then try to adjust your patterns and routines to the girl. I think u still have to be spontanoius and eleborate on the situation. Cocky Funny is great to get the girl in the right state of mind, but remember once u started u gotta keep it up. If u see a girl in the club use her as test dumby and try something new: personal. A lot of AFC's are reading the book and using the same pattrens could back fire on you.

cheers

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SnoW

whats up dudes

i know exactly what your saying. ive been sarging recently and thats the bigest thing for me is the approach. i feel that if you dont follow the 3 second rule your done for. once you see a chick if you hesitate and she sees that theres no use trying to hit on her later. just look around some more and move on.

openers are key though

peace

man, practice is definetly the key here. I was approaching some girls today and I fiugured out how freaking important it is to have good body positioning (i was so stupid to throw a line to a girl that was just crossing the street on the opposite direction) and voice tone. sometimes they just won't hear unless you say it pretty damm clear or even say a quick hi first. I am really looking forward to practice lots of approaches.

I'm telling you the approach feeling never leaves but you begin to crave it like an adrenaline junkie plans to do his next skydive. I love it.

Ya man to me the approach is turning into a rush. The heart starts beating faster as you walk up to a set and you try figuring out what you are gonna use to open. I am starting to enjoy it. I can't wait till its like a hunt for me.

Man, that rush is what sarging is about. It's one of the hugest factors as to why I love this game so much. The intensity and the fun is overwhelming. Usually at the end of a PU, I feel like I can crush any set and just steal girls away from their friends!

Now we're getting off topic..

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