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 Post subject: Newbie needs advice
PostPosted: Sat Jan 09, 2010 4:09 pm 
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Hi guys,
Before i get in the comunity i had a major problem : every time i got to know a girl better i started losing her(my relationships were counted in days).Reading some afc adam stuff,i realised that the problem is Over-Investment.Dispite realising this,i now see there isn't much to do about it.The problem is inside my head and therefore reflected in my actions.The solution i came up was : get her to invest even more than i do.OK,this worked till a certain point,but i started to look needy(asking many questions,etc).
Now my questions are : what can i do about over-investment ? is my solution good ?


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 Post subject: Re: Newbie needs advice
PostPosted: Sat Jan 09, 2010 5:30 pm 
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Hi guys,
Before i get in the comunity i had a major problem : every time i got to know a girl better i started losing her(my relationships were counted in days).Reading some afc adam stuff,i realised that the problem is Over-Investment.Dispite realising this,i now see there isn't much to do about it.The problem is inside my head and therefore reflected in my actions.The solution i came up was : get her to invest even more than i do.OK,this worked till a certain point,but i started to look needy(asking many questions,etc).
Now my questions are : what can i do about over-investment ? is my solution good ?
The mistake you're making is only a symptom of a bigger problem. The bigger problem is you're not meeting enough chics. Go out and meet more chics, and then divide your time with each of them, so that way you never make one girl a priority, and you wont appear as needy and over-committed.


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