Hi guys! I've been pursuing this girl for about a year now, it's been a long hard difficult road but i think i've finally about made her my gf!

I just have a few questions i'd like some opinions on from the PUA's to settle my curiousity!

1. Is it ever a mistake if a girl leaves her top (or any item of clothing) in your room?

2. Is it ever a mistake if a girl brings her laptop into your room to "show you this great new band" and then accidentally opens a folder of her posing in sexy outfits?

3. Is it a good thing if a girl agrees to dye her hair red in order to please you?

I would appreciate your thoughts!

b-moc

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1: Kiss her and do her.
2: Kiss her and do her.
3: Tell her you feel attracted to girls doing a lapdance and kiss you... just before you do her.


COME ON DUDE SERIOUSLY. You don't need this forum to know you're in..... YOU FRICKING ARE.

SJeez.

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

You don't need "expert opinions" to figure these out.
1. Not her top man, no way, any other very small piece of clothing COULD be a mistake, i mean you never know but you can still be pretty sure it's not mistake.
2. Accidents do happen, i weren't there so i can't say for sure. But no, not in a million years.
3. Very, very good thing, come on dude it speaks for itself.

Either she is extremely clumsy or extremely attracted to you, my guess is that she is attracted to you, and she made 1 and 2 look like accidents. Think about it, i doubt two so called "accidents" like that would happen in a row with the same girl.

I've been down this road myself, you're spending so much time trying to read her, rather than getting her. Stop questioning if she's into you, or why she's into you, when she clearly is, deep down you know she is.

im confused about the part where he said "I THINK i made her my gf" wtf do you mean think, YES OR NO......

also have you had sex wit her yet? i mean she throwin herself at you, fucking close already, thats what she waiting for. she is basically jerkin you off making you hard and hovering over your cock waiting for you to put it in. WTF are you waiting for?

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Yippi ki ya yippi yi yi yo, if you can't swim don't smoke my hydro.

if only this was as straight forward as i made appear! I am going over to see her in a couple of weeks (a long distance relationship) to ask her to be my gf as obviously we don't want to do it over the phone! so yes she will be when i see her!
Yes i have! But only after she told me she broke up with her boyfriend. This is a few months ago, only she went and got back with him and we stopped talking for a bit! Now things are back on, she says she is single and has no respect for her ex and she has even invited me round to hers for her sisters 21st birthday.

The thing that is niggling at my head is the fact that she still has her "ex" listed as her bf on facebook! Now don't get the wrong impression of me! I do recognize ioi's when i see them, and points 1,2 and 3 above as well as inviting me over for her sisters 21st where i'm gonna meet all her friends and family! And i am going to confront her about the "ex" and the facebook thing when i see her.

I suppose (and sorry to be afc) but i'm just after peace of mind that there's not going to be any more fuck ups after last time and that if this girl, that i do really care about is doing points 1,2 and 3 above then its really on this time!

Thanks for your responses guys!

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a couple things scare me here. first thing is it seems that your the rebound guy, your more emontionally invested than she is. you said she doesnt respect her bf, you might want to question her respect for you.

second thing is facebook will fuck with your head and cause you a lot of grief rather than good. i say this because your mind is already racing over her facebook status and it stating she still with her bf. your going to get over jealous about stuff you read on there and it will always come up in convo with this girl and start fights. it has bad news all over it.

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Yippi ki ya yippi yi yi yo, if you can't swim don't smoke my hydro.

Facepalm*

Just nail her and stop thinking stuff that is obvious....

[ Johnny B ]

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Fear has a large shadow, but he himself is small. ~Ruth Gendler

You probably are, but that doesnt mean you can't build a relationtip on this

and
I just want to add..

KISS HER AND DO HER NUMEROUS TIMES... if you ARE the rebound guy enjoy it as much as you can

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

Hey guys thanks for your responses!
I really don't think i can be called the rebound guy. I'll fill you in with a bit more details:

1. I met her on a dating site a year ago (while she still had a boyfriend)
2. We have texted nearly every day for a year - She initiates the texts 99% of the time.
3. Infact i have played the whole thing extremely calmly as she has had a bf practically the whole time i knew her (even if i didn't know about it the whole time).
4. She has driven 160 miles on two occasions to see me at home! Last time just a few days ago!
5. I have had dinner with her family (160 mile drive for me)! This was extremely strange and i cant work it out cos she was still with her bf at this time! (seriously...any PUA's who can explain this???)
6. We stopped talking for 3 months when she chose to stay with her bf over getting with me! They have 2 dogs which they own jointly so it'll be hard getting rid of him completely!
7. We started talking again about a month ago. I went on holiday and put loads of photos of girls all over my Facebook. When i returned she had posted me a painting that she spent 3 days painting for me and a letter asking to meet up again.
8. We met up again between our two homes (she brought her sister and a friend with her) and she said that it's up to me if i want to be with her now!
9. 2 weeks later she came round to my house for the 2nd time which brings us to the present day! I told her before she came that i was gonna ask her to be my gf when she arrived, but it didn't seem right to do mainly because of her "ex" still listed as her bf on Facebook.
10. I'm going round to hers in 2 weeks. She has challenged me to find the balls to ask her to be my gf. Which i fully intend on doing!
11. The problem is of her ex, who she says knows about me and how we met, how long we've known each other etc and that i'm the only guy who's ever given her an orgasm during sex. He is still listed as her bf on facebook and its seriously annoying me! She says they are broken up but i'm not sure what to believe after everything.

So what to do???

I have read all over this forum for people in similar situations and have not found any! This is what i'm planning on doing when i see her, i appreciate your thoughts.

1. Confront her about Facebook, act like it and he barely bothers me but say that she really should take him off!
2. Ask her to be my gf!

I really don't think i'm the rebound guy cos this has gone on ages and there has been so much investment from both of us.

And yes i have thought about the moral implications of seeing a girl with a boyfriend. She clearly doesn't love him and was only there for convenience i think. I'm also aware i could be heading for a big fall and a lot of pain.

Thanks.

ps: another ioi - she asked me to find a guy for her best mate!

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so, basically youre a couple, good luck, be her bf, but tell her to make you her bf on facebook, because, by what you said she dumped him

PU is about Picking Up women, in the relationtip youre on youre own

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

your blind bro. what was she doing on a dating site when she has a boyfriend? how did you allow yourself to get involved with her knowing all of this?

she is going to tool you bro just like your being tooled now. she still fuckin her ex, if she isnt she soon will, she has the dogs between them. i dont know how your wrapped up with this chick. i wouldnt trust her at all. she ditched you for her ex what makes you think she wont do it again? not to mention 160 miles between you to. she can be up to anything.

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Yippi ki ya yippi yi yi yo, if you can't swim don't smoke my hydro.