Hey,

This is mainly for new people in the game but can help people of all skill levels who haven't heard about this.

Outcome dependence = having an agenda = bad for your game

Credit to the Venusian Arts for this one (Lovedrop, Matador, and Mystery)

A lot of new guys (and even experienced PUA's) always feel like they have to get their target girl and have sex or makeout or whatever with her and if they don't then they see their interaction as a failure. By having outcome independence it really shows in your interactions and can really confuse a girl about what you really want. Even if you can't close your target doesn't mean you can't be friends. That's why being in the friend zone is actually a GREAT thing! Hot girls have hot friends. Your orginal target could introduce you to her friend who introduces you to her roomate and you end up fucking that girl. Why do you care if you have sex with your original target when you're going to get the sex anyway? All of the PUA's I have met in person only care about fucking their target so they can go brag about it in their field reports. Style refers to this as a social robot aka guys who thrive on validation from others and don't have sex to enjoy it, rather they go brag about it to their friends. Sure this would make you skilled at laying girls but will do nothing for your personality, which is ultimately what we're trying to develop. Instead, try this: Go out and game girls and intentionally get yourself into the friend zone. After you do this with about 10 hot girls, invite a couple of your best buds over and invite the girls over. After you throw an awesome party the girls will want to come back. Then all these girls will tell their friends about you which at the least would be 10 other girls. And these 10 girls will be friends with you forever. Then roll to the club with the 10 girls and 4 or 5 of your best guy friends and you will be the center of attention in any venue you go to. Outcome independence really shines through in any interaction, rather than trying to lay every girl you meet, make some of them your friends. A lot of guys I met from the community have a lot of sex but still have shitty lives because they cannot develop a good base of friends where they can just hang out and shoot the shit. Of course this may be a little advanced for a lot of people, with hard work and mastery, will be a lot more rewarding in the end.

~Mav

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