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| grayson | PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 12:59 am | |
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Location: Bergen County, NJ | | Alright, so something I've been wondering... I have some friends (not close friends, acquaintences from high school or college, or girls I hang out with through close friends) that I'm interested in hooking up with. However, I don't see how many of these tecniques would work with someone you already know and/or have a rapport with. What are the success rates, best methods, recommendations, etc. to consider when embarking on such an endeavor?
Grayson~
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| Monkey | PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 1:31 am | |
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Posts: 738 | | A few tips with girls you already know:
If you have strong rapport already, establish kino. The longer you've known her, the longer you have to stay in the innocent zone of kino. Light touches. Nothing big. And steer the conversation away from all things sexual for a while. Then escalate both simultaneously and SLOWLY. Most guys fuck up in their pacing; they move too fast in non-bar situations and too slowly in bars. Make sure you're not telegraphing neediness. It's a priviledge for this girl to sleep with you, not the other way around.
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| xfman | PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 6:47 pm | |
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| Monkey | PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 11:46 pm | |
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Posts: 738 | | Cocky/funny is good, but it's not for everyone. The thing with girls you already know is that they know your attitude already, and if there is a switch in your attitude, they'll notice it. Talk to her like you normally would, and try to escalate the kino.
If she tries to put you into the LJBF zone, kill that with "I don't like to place artificial boundaries on my relationships. But I do promise not to go any further than you are comfortable with at any given time."
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