Right been doing the PUA shit for couple years now and got some very lovely women, but theres something that i wana ask others on.

Theres alot of times where a women be it 9 or 10's who really want me yet i lose any real attraction for them because it seems as a male i want to CHASE them.

Now i know it goes against the grain of PUA to chase but for some reason i feel like i want to step out of the PUA stuff and chase a girl. I don't know why but it just feels like im getting given gifts for free so to speak

Am i the only one that feels like this? My guess is that its instinct for a man to go out see a woman, want her, chase it and get her, tho the PUA method changes that and seems to me i lose any real attraction because theres no fucking challenge and i don't feel im i've done the work to be rewarded.

Ive had to tell two 9's this morning via text and msn that i'm not attracted to them and i'll not be seeing them anymore and it just seems like this is all wrong.

If it feels wrong, do something else.


why the fuck are you asking us for permission?

''Am i the only one that feels like this?'' Look's like a question sweetheart.

Mate, I know exactly how you feel. Maybe, perhaps, we feel this way as a result of believing most of our lives that this is what men must do to get women. I don't think it's male instinct to chase women.

Men hunt women they don't chase them.

But I think the chase thing is more has to do with social programing than anything else.

I'm finding it difficult to get out of this routine, but I think I've at least realized staying this way isn't doing me any favours, so why keep it up?

It does feel wrong and against 'instinct' (for lack of a better phrase) but all the same the last thing I want to do anyway is run around after a woman as I am actually a SLIGHT control freak so actually to continue like that in the long run may even be against my instinct.

Ooh it is a web of paradoxes we have here isn't it?

I personally don't care if someone has the same feelings as me. I rather walk my own path.