There is a ton of information out there in the community about every stage of the game. If you're like me and you're just starting out, it can be one of the most confusing things you've ever seen.

I was listening to a podcast with AJ and Jordan from the Art of Charm interviewing Niel Strauss, and one of the things Niel said really opened my eyes.

Paraphrasing, he said the only information in the community worth having is information that will improve your game.

So for everyone who is frustrated with the seemingly endless supply of conflicting and cryptic advice that comes from these forums, I urge you to just keep asking yourself, "Will this improve my game?"

If the answer is no, ignore it.

You don't know unless you try it.