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PostPosted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 10:26 pm 
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Ok, I will list a few very common situations, these are very newbie questions, and it would be good if someone can give me some suggestion of good ways to open in those situations, and then how to best transition from it... :)

1) Let's say I walk in the street and see cute girl walking with a dog. It's very common situation... I can go with something like "Hey will he bite? :)" .. Is this good (I guess it is, it's opener so..:) or can I open with something better, and how do I transition from this kind of opener... Any ideas?

2) I am at the concerts/festivals all the time... So in a few days there is a U2 concert... let's say I spot cool looking girl, with or without some friends... How do you start talking with a girl on festival, and especially important how do you transition, and continue talking. I guess I can open with anything regarding concert, it's not that hard ("Hey, when does the concert start" of "Which are supporting bands") but not sure how to transition, and what more to talk about next.. ?? Or again, is there a better opener, way to start this conversation?

These are two situations I would need help now, cause they are so common for me, I go to concerts all the time, and also there is this one cute girl I already spotted few times near my street walking with a dog, so want to try do something with it.. :)

Any further ideas for this situations (some field reports for similar situations if existing would be great) welcome :)

Thanks,

Nik


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 30, 2009 4:22 am 
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Situation #1:

Answer: "Day Game" (or Low Energy Game) applies here. Just go direct. If she is walking her dog, she is probably not thinking much about getting attention from a guy. Having the confidence to walk right up to her and display interest is a strong alpha move. You could say something like, "Excuse me... I noticed you walking your dog around here a few times... I just want you to know that you are the cutest girl I see each day, and I want to get to know you. Tell me about yourself." If you need inspiration, rent a few chick flicks (no joke) and watch how the "Prince Charming" in each movie interacts with the main female character in random places. Women watch chick flicks for a reason my friend...

Situation #2:

Answer: This one is a little harder. Concerts are a place where communication between strangers is not encouraged like a bar. If I were you, I would treat it like a club, but being direct. In a concert, she knows that you could care less about the weather. You might as well start with your interest with her and work your way from there.

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