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| Saint1990 | PostPosted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 5:07 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Thu Sep 17, 2009 6:39 pm Posts: 204 Location: Uk | | Rite guys i had the set from hell last night and im looking for advice or conformation that it was just un-saveable lol!
My mate and i went out to sarge last night and went to the place to be on a thursday. It was very busy so the first few sets were hard to open but nevertheless we were sucessfull. That awsum feeling arose as always when i could feel my social value was rising, i even had the rare event of women opening me....
However we spotted a set with a stunning 8 and a 6. My mate couldnt get the 8 out of his head throughout the next few sets so it had to be opened. I ,like any other wing would have done, opened the six and twirled her just slightly away from the 8 so my mate could work her. I got chatting to the six and had the horrible realisation that she was wrecked! Never the less i continued to chat to her and was getting some drunken ioi's when suddenly two of the bitchyest women i have ever come across entered the set. They must have thought i had targeted the 6 because she was pissed. I tryed to work the two new women to no avail they had their Bitch shields up to the max almost to the point of starting a fight.
So i politely left the set and gave a subtle hint to my mate that it was time to eject, he didnt number close but she agreed to come see him at his work(In a bar) tonight. However what could i have done to buy more time? Bearing in mind that there was nothing i could say that would stop one of the girls becoming bitchy and almost agressive. I know my stuff was good as one of the two who entered softened up and was smiling.
Advice, crit and banter all welcome!
Peace Out, Saint _________________ Attraction is the insatiable desire to be irresistibly desired
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| Slywalker | PostPosted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 6:41 pm | |
| Offline | | Married Moderator |  | Joined: Sun Jan 18, 2009 6:56 am Posts: 773 Location: San Francisco | | This is something that studying NLP will help you with, NLP will help you to faster connect with people and build rapport, What I would have done is probably try to crack a few jokes with the bitches, even if I get rejected I always stay for a little longer to see if I can learn something, try to make friends with the bitches, even if it doesn't work out you will buy yourself some time while you do it. You can also begin a funny story, or pull an oppinion opener, there are many ways to buy some time.
And hey, if nothing else works, there are 2 more options:
1. Stay and argue with them, it's still a conversation.
2. If you want to really help your friend out, offer to buy the other girls drinks. _________________ .............
Slywalker
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| Saint1990 | PostPosted: Sat Sep 19, 2009 12:12 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Thu Sep 17, 2009 6:39 pm Posts: 204 Location: Uk | | Thanks mate much appreciated, NLP is next on the list of things to work on and a part of my game that is lacking. If your interested in that sort of thing check out the Programme the mentalist its the first place i saw it being used (Even if it was a tv show) Are any of the Darren Brown books good for that sort of thing? Also how do you start practicing NLP? Ive worked on my game totaly myself through trial and error and dont know where to start...
Peace Out, Saint _________________ Attraction is the insatiable desire to be irresistibly desired
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