| Ok, normally when I get a girl home or come to her apartment I have kissed her before, that relieves a lot of tension, you don't have to make out with her, just a peck on the lips can sometimes be enough to make the situation more comfortable.
Anyway since this wasn't the situation here is what you should do..
Asking to use the bathroom is not bad, if you would just have asked "can I come up" that can come out totally wrong, a line like that needs more practice.
Anyway, as you are in the apartment you can't fuck around, you need to act, escalate the attraction.
Sit down on her couch, ask her to sit down with you, ask it with confidence but don't command her. If she tells you to leave at this point I recommend that you do, until you are a more experienced PUA, by leaving you may still have a chance later on.
Ok, so if she sits down with you, start the kino, anyway will do, just don't go too fast, start by holding her hands or rubbing her shoulders. Then (again until you have more experience) I recommend you to pull some routine either a kino routine, or a routine that will just help you connect, Like the cube of five question game, something to get her interest and make her laugh, make her comfortable!
As soon as she feels comfortable sitting next to you on the couch, keep escalating the attraction and the kino and the rest of the pieces will fall into place.
No as you improve and become a better PUA your tactics will change, but this is an easy enough place to begin and in my experience it works.
Good luck! _________________ .............
Slywalker
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