Tomorrow is gona be my fourth day in college and thats the end of the first week.

I haven't really talked with any girls except for one SPAM which randomly started talking to me and a friend of mine. But I dont really count that.

I'm starting to get pretty cool with this guy straight from Japan, I can already tell he's gona become a bridge, I can only imagine the kinda girls this guys gona be reeling in.

I already gotten back in touch with 5 people from my old school.

In English I'm making alot of interesting comments and questions so I'm getting noticed there too, I've already gotten cool with 1 guy there.

My Multi Media class I really dont say anything in that class, it seems really dead.

Oh and Psychology, I can tell I'm gona get along really well the teacher,a already asked him about body language,and this PUA stuff has already taught me alot, and he can tell I'm ahead of the class, and I've mad alot of funny comments , a few HBs started checking me out as soon as i made my dynamic late entrance.


We'll let me get to the point. I've been reading stuff like How To Conquer Your Campus, and It focuses more on colleges with frat houses and sororities. I go to Borough of Manhattan community college, so how exactly do i build a social scene there? I find it a bit difficult to wrap my head around that one.

I've been looking around, I don't really see cliques or anything like that, maybe its just me iono. Any advice is appreciated.

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22 Yr. old Sophomore here. Honestly, you being a fun person is going to be essential. Chicks don't want anything to do with you if you can't show them a good time. Make friends with the dudes throwing the parties and make sure you check for your local PUA lair! Doing well in school is likewise essential. So what I've done is turned myself into the guy that appears to be a class cut up/party boy, but I'm secretly a good student and carry a 4.0 through my second semester as a Sophomore. Doing this has cut into my sleep a considerable amount, but its worth it.

Good Luck

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Thanks, will most def keep that in mind. - Redkid

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girls will contact you if you know where parties are. eventually, throw your own.

Im in the same boat as you, its like the 8th day of school in my college, Hofstra but its a seperate campus life then yours. Stay late with your phycology teacher and hope that a girl has to see him after class, if she gets interested in your conversation or stays late just to be with you then thats a straight IOI and strike a conversation about her.

One piece of advice is to never run straight out of the classroom, take a bit to pack up your stuff and stroll out casually. You want to linger and attempt to strike up a conversation. Even a quick line like "this class will be easy" can be a way to break the ice and engage in a conversation.

Meet up with friends for lunch at the college cafeteria, its a great way to connect with people and meet new friends.

Try to find an area for recreation sports, I dont know if your college has one, and make it your business to frequent their alot. Play pick up games of basketball or be a spotter for a guy lifting the bar. Just be friendly and put on a smile.

The first 2 months are when circles start to form so start talking to as many people as you can and just be friendly, wear a smile, and be yourself.