First of all I am currently going through a divorce with my wife. I have been out of the game for 3 years and I am slowly trying to build back up.

Ok here is my dilemma:

I hung out with an old fling a couple nights ago. She runs with mutual friends of mine nowadays. I had a few 1 night stands with this girl over 4 years ago but no relationship ever escalated out of this. I met up with her and a group of friends for dinner followed by drinks downtown at the local bars. Throughout the whole night she acted as if she could careless if I was there or not. I did not try anything with her because I figured we were just friends now and the past was the past. Towards the end of the night the group started to branch off. Her and another male friend of mine stayed hanging out. By this time I realised she was interested in me again because I would go mingle around the bar and I noticed she would look for me. Anyways, we ended up getting pretty trashed and we all walked over to my house to crash for the night. We got to my house and they both passed out on my couch. I woke her trying to give her a blanket but she gave it to my friend and she followed me into the bedroom. We had sex twice that night followed by some cuddling into the morning. The next morning was a bit awkward. She was pretty quiet and was complaining about a hangover. I gave her and my friend a ride home and when I dropped her she just said goodbye and that was it. Didnt even get her number. Later that day I called my friend and got her number from him. After I got her number I texted her and asked how she felt etc, kept it short.

Now I am not really sure what to do. Should I try to pursue this or just let it go. If I did want to keep pursueing how would I go about it. There is a lot of awkwardness built up and I am not even sure if she wants more than a 1 night stand with me.

Hey Duk3 here,

A few things you might want to implement into your life are these:

stop thinking and start REALLY having fun (women will notice)

spend some money on some clothes that you would never wear in the past

learn to talk more slowly and with MORE emphasis

(i really can't stress this enough, 90% forget this )

All pros do these things

still having trouble PM me

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Alright I will definately try all of these. I got the appearance factor down but my main problem is shyness. My confidence level is pretty low after getting burned so many times. I also really need to work on my body language ive noticed.

If she was interested you guys would of had more dialogue she just wanted to fuck in my opinion and I personally don't think there is anything but that.