So im very new to all of this, but last night i kind of tried applying this stuff for the first time.

I went to a party and was hanging out with this girl i know. we started to kind of flirt and argue about stupid stuff like whats better crash bandicut or final fantasy and stuff like that. i was trying to bust her balls as much as possible. we were talking for a long time but it wasnt leading anywhere, so i tried to get her to come outside with me a few times but she wouldnt come.

eventually we both ended up outside and were arguing again. so i kinda said "are u serious?" while we were arguing and jokingly forced against the wall. i then leaned in and was inches from her face, we started rubbing noses. so i tried going in for the kiss but she pulled away, and left.

I know that there was probably many things I did wrong but I was wondering what specifically was it. I'm thinking that I was maybe too needy for goin in for the kiss and also for hanging out with her for so long.

Probably not enough Kino.

You had probably not enough sexual frame.

ok cool thanks. this may be a noob question but what do u mean by sexual frame?

Have you seen Charlie Harper in 2 and ½ men? He's a god at this.

He's always rephrasing the women sentences into something sexual.

Like Woman: "I've had so much to drink I think I cannot walk"

Sexual frame: "It's cool, you only have to lay down"

You get where I'm going?

This need a lot of kino and a sense of cocky & funny behaviour. But if you learn it, you can forget all about tactics and routines, the women will always be comfterable in your presence and the way you rephrase the words will almost always make them laugh. They will also more easy have some intimate time with you because your a fucking sexual creature, you show that all the time! It's not fucking proper talking sex to woman you met 5 min ago but it's what make it so fucking right.

Ofc you have to find your scale.. The bad is that if you go too hardcore, you creep out the women. But it has almost never happened to me. Gl mate!

nonotreals:

You went in for the kiss abruptly with no kino before.

Escalate kino from the beginning to make it not awkward when you started. Start with putting your hand on her shoulder briefly to get her attention or when youre talking. Then go to spinning her around randomly. Etc. Make it less awkward so that when you go for the kiss it's not like "wait where did that come from he didn't try to touch me at all before"

Combine that with Reagen's good advice about sexual frame and you're good to go.

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