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| Double J | PostPosted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 3:22 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Wed Sep 10, 2008 1:55 am Posts: 273 | | Ok this will be a quick question. But i do need your opinions.
Have you ever met a girl in a club ect. Gone on a day two with her and thought, no, i don't want to be with her, But she'd be a great friend. I have that problem at the moment.
I need a way to bring her into the friend zone, without hurting her feelings to much, as she is way into me. Also what's a good way to game for female friends?
Cheers.
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| theTK | PostPosted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 4:10 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Jul 30, 2009 11:39 pm Posts: 59 | | Just don't sexually escalate. Still be flirtatious tho, as she will respond well to it and it will be a massive social proof to any girl around you that you'd like to impress
~TK
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| Cats | PostPosted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 4:13 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Aug 28, 2009 10:18 am Posts: 5 | | I think there isn't an easy solution to this, as she is really into you. I think the best way of dealing with it is to just continue seeing her, but don't game her. Don't let room for her own interpretation in anything you say, make it obvious. Just be a nice guy to her and offer value as a friend. Eventually she will accept that the two of you are not going to be together. But don't expect it to happen within a few weeks.
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| halareal | PostPosted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 7:25 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat May 09, 2009 12:17 am Posts: 4 | | Heres from one, who really can get female friends...
Don't touch her.
When she wants to talk more sexually point it to a direction as if you are talking to male friend, and ask her questions about girls. "I just got this girls number, but i dont know when to sms her. Mike says that i should wait a few days, what do you say?"...
or maybe "I really think that guy is in to you, you should give it a go he seams nice"..
Keep joking with her, keep being friendly and treat her good, just as you would with your friends. Ask her to do something for you, something you would ask any other friend to do.
Just imagine her as a friend, and in a few days your problem will be solved.
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| KristallNachte | PostPosted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:00 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Jan 31, 2009 12:30 am Posts: 1800 Location: Kintown, Okinawa, Japan | | god forbid you actually just be honest and tell her.
if you don't want to hurt her feelings, just tell her. since otherwise it could be a while before she truly grasps it and she may hurt all along the way through that plan. _________________ Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

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| Double J | PostPosted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 1:39 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Wed Sep 10, 2008 1:55 am Posts: 273 | | Great advice guys.
To be honest, *Cats* said it exactly how i though i was going to have to play it, long and slow. However, gonna go with *Halareal* on this one, largely because he ended his post with these 4 words. Problem, solved, few, days.
"god forbid you actually just be honest and tell her."~ KristallNachte
See thats, what i know i should do, but i want an, wel an easy way out. Tell you what, if she ends up getting realy hurt half way threw than plan, ill say you were right, and ill owe you a coke.
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