Ok, so this girl and I are meeting for coffee tomorrow. Not a date necessarly, just the first meeting. Can you guys give me like a list of good pointers that will make her attracted to me more? If age matters, Im 31, she is 21. Yes thats a big difference, but we pretty much "click" when talking. Great girl, sense of humor, smart...etc.

Most important question i have. Do you try going for a kiss on the first meeting OR the first actual date? I remember some guru saying "if you dont get a kiss that first night...forget it, you lost out" Is that true?

'dates' don't exist for PUAs. why? because 'dates' put too much pressure on the people involved. so you should never go on 'dates' with any girls.

i'd suggest making sure there's action and not just talk.

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