Well I've known this girl for a while now and a couple of days ago we went out together for the first time ever for drinks..I knew she had a boyfriend(long distance) at the time but I decided to go out with her anyway. She said she wanted to go out early and only for a little because she had early class the next day but we ended up drinking for over 5 hours. At that point we were both really drunk and she came up with the idea to go to a strip club. We were there for no longer than 5 minutes and her boyfriend called her and she got really upset and demanded to leave. Being a drunken idiot I got really mad and called her out for leading me on and we started fighting because she claimed that she just gets along with guys better and doesn't understand why its a big deal for her to go out with guys and not hook up with them..But she kept saying that she got it now and that she wouldn't talk to me again. After all this she said she was mad at me for not respecting that she had a boyfriend and I cursed her out. Anyway I saw her two days later and she acts like none of it ever happened..she said she was an idiot for not realizing what I was thinking and that she had a lot of fun..now she is talking about all the specials the bar we went to has wanting to go out again and wants me to go to football games with her..I really like this girl but she is confusing the shit out of me.. What should I do?

Go out with her and dont mention what happend the last time. It wasnt her fault that you think she was leading you on. Cause she wasnt. Most guys always think "but she nice to me and sometimes flirty and blah blah blah" that how most women are. Your chance to hook up has dropped, arguing with her and cussing her out shows her your the jealous type. The only reason she acted like it didint happend is because she didnt want to be reminded of it. She wants to still hang out because she vaules you as a "friend" but your chances in getting hook-up with her are slim.

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She wanted a friend you wanted a lay, it didn't play out to the point where you got the LJBF speech but it was inevitable. Forget her, if you must go after taken women understand what it is you are going after and manage their expectations.


Also drink or no drink it sounds kinda like you acted like a little bitch when she said she didn't want anything more than friendship. She won't forget that so nothing will happen.

In future remember women are emotional and will say and do things depending on how they feel in that moment. You are a guy as a guy you need to be emotionally solid and not start swearing because some girl with a boyfriend doesn't want to do the no pants dance.


If you had kept your cool you may have got her in the end, strip clubs tend to make people turned on.

You screwed up accept that, let her go, learn from this and don't do it again.

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