Ok guys this is a long one, its sort of like a field report but i need questions answered so i thougt I'd post it here.

Tonite I had a going away party of one of my friends he threw a party and I was one of the few people inside a limo going towards the party (points for coming in style I guess). I was in high spirits and wanted to focus on starting conversations tonite, seeing as how I'm an AFC, I wanted people to think of me as interesting. So when we get there I get stumped, but fortunately I meet a girl friend who I am interested in. Now she showed all the IOI's I need to kiss close her, laughing at my good jokes, coming toward me when I am stuck alone with no one to talk to and asking me to accompany her. The problem is she is an ex of my best friend who is leaving in 5 weeks, so my game with her was flirting but keeping her at a distance, I really like her but i can't get myself to cheat my best friend just yet.

Anyway she introduces me to two of her friends, one of whom is really hot (9), and I start a routine with "who do u think lies more, guys or girls?" they instantly say guys, and i try to point out how guys try to please girls by acting sweet, bla bla, and they take a liking to me. Unfortunately her friend the obstacle was away from me, howeer I still tried to get her attention instead of the target, and we ended up playing a little game (find a guy wearing rosary beads). I won, but I offered her a drink since she was adamant about winning, to try to keep her attention, and she stated that she owed me a drink (I know she won't ever offer me one) but still the game with her went on. The target at this point moved to new friends but I followed her and we kept chit chatting over small things, like how she dresses (i realise I was acting needy). Anyways i couldn't get her to the dance floor so I just left and found my friends to hang out with, and bailed on the target and the obstacle, even though she showed interest. I knew I couldn't get anymore of her attention the way I was going so I thought "quit while ure ahead".

Anyway later I managed to get a rugby team to like me at which point I got introduced to another 9, which played a game with us, that the guy with the sweetest boxers would get a drink from the guy with the ugliest boxers. I flashed first and she negged me. I retaliated with by defending that she was the pervert for starting the whole game, anyway it ended with her saying that I had balls and she offered me a drink. I told her that out of all the girls in here, she was the one with balls to start an argument with me tonite, so I offered her a drink instead, we got the drinks and she went with a friend of mine and I heard her say that "that guy has balls". At this point things were getting late and I had to bail, I went to say bye to the dj, and she came up with my friend, I touched her arm and she didn't notice, and then I grabbed her to turn her around and I told her "I was only trying to say bye" and she said "it was nice meeting you" and smiled (she hinted some attraction with her body language), I smiled and said "it was a pleasure meeting u" and left.

Can anybody help me out on how I can improve on this? I realise that I had the opportunity but I need to know what I could improve to make things move faster. These girls liked me, but chances are I won't meet them again any time soon, and by that time they won't remember me.

Moai:

Don't keep buying girls drinks, that is AFC. Kino early (within the first few minutes) as opposed to waiting until the end of the night and making it awkward. If you have time, kiss close to establish yourself as a sexual being. If no time, number close and do it in a funny charming way to ensure that she will remember you when you text. Give her a nick name, and refer to her by that name throughout the night. DHV (you sorta got it with the balls thing), but DHV at least two things. If you do or say one interesting thing, she will think "that's interesting", but if you do a few interesting things, it becomes "he's interesting". Don't act defensive when she negs you. Don't compliment her unless she really earns it. And don't constantly switch targets, especially if they're in the same set. Pick one and focus on it, until you either close or fail, at which point choose one from a different set.

Yours,
Red Hot

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Yours,
Red Hot

Thanks for having the patience to read through it, much appreciated.

Yeah, no more buying drinks, thats a promise. Also gotta neg, I didn't do that.

As for the girl that seemed interested in me, should I add on facebook or wait till we meet again? Which might be never, but who knows weekend is comin up, and if I meet her this weekend without showing an IOI by adding her, I know I'm in.

Good move with the rugby guys but you need to get these girls out of your head. If you're doing, say, 10 approaches a night then these two girls shouldn't be important, a small drop in a big sea.

If you have the attitude that you can let them go because you have options then you probably won't lose them in the first place.