Hey, Im 15 and in the 11th grade. Today was the first day of school and surprisingly this year I am seated next to some hot girls(we have assigned seating so its rare for me to get near fine chicks in the classroom environment). So my problem is opening the girls in class as I dont want to jeopardize my status if I fail. This is the hardest problem as I have strict parents so its hard for me to go out sarging for practice(maybe 3 times a year), therefore my only infield experience can be gained at school. I need to know some sort of routine or method I can follow as Mystery Method is virtually impossible for school as it requires a lot of comfort building locations as well as plenty of time. In my 2nd period we are in a computer lab and the target is in front of me out of reliable talking distance(if I talk it will be in earshot of three rows of kids). In 3rd period it might be easier as it is a hands on class. In 5th period the target sits across the room but if I arrive early enough I might be able to secure a seat nearby(but I need an opener). In 6th period a 7(potential pawn) sits to my right( I can talk but I need a good beginning of school opener. In 7th period a two set sits directly behind me, both have major popularity but I only want the one to my back right. So I need anybody who has advice to pleases help me out. I have some infield experience, I just find it hard to start a non friend conversation in school because I'm tired of the "lets be friends line." So if you know of any routines or anything that I can conversate about to DHV and not look like a loser it would be much appreciated because if I mess up I have to live with the shame all year since they are within such a close proximity. Thanks in advance.

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Will The Thrill, 15 and ill.

Your being way to methodical. Let everything be natural. Your in highschool so having to DHV yourself verbally is totally unneccisary. DHV yourself by rolling with guys of value, being the centre of attention and joining teams and having an overall good social life. If you keep looking at the pretty girl in your class and then one day "coincidently" sit beside her, its a little try hard, and she will notice it. Try and find a more social enviroment to get to know her and then let her be the one who wants to sit next to you in class. Avoid the LJBF stuff by teasing and LIGHT flirtation with your female friends to keep some sexual tension but don't be a horny 15 year old, you will scare her off =P

If this helps you let me know and feel free to ask more questions.

i have a lot of trouble with similar stuff in school, and i can give a few pointers i think

#1 it sounds to me (no offense) like you are not on top of the popularity chain. do whatever to try to rise a bit in social status. hang out with some football players or something.

#2 I recommend introducing yourself to a girl somewhere other than where you game her. so say the cute girl from period 5 or whatever is in the office in the morning.. strike up a conversation (something clever like "come here often, your a trouble maker i can tell__) something playful.

or in lunch talk to someone, use an opener about a well known couple in school or something.

#3 if someone says "lets be friends" say this "I have enough friends, thanks" (not my quote)

happy sarging

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You can call me Layout

Man, one thing that too many H/S kids underestimate is hygiene and clothing. Also, give working out a try! (After you turn 16. If you do it before, it can stunt your growth.)

Hygiene Breakdown:
Keep your finger nails manicured, (Don't pay to have them shits done, but keep them trimmed, invest in a emery board, and maybe a clear coat. Girls notice, trust me.) Keep your teeth brushed damnit (Also, girls ask for gum all the time. Keep some of that on you too! )! And stay showered and smelling good! Wash your face! Invest in some Axe (Its cheap and I get more compliments on my Axe than on my expensive colognes.), and antiperspirant (girls don't like sweaty pits man....for real...).

Clothes Breakdown:
Unfortunately, H/S is a very trendy place, complete with people who don't really know what kind of style they want to fall into. Therefore, brands like Abercrombie and Fitch, aeropostale, and whatever the hell else kids are wearing these days, are seen as cool and fashionable. I say, fuck this. Try to look nice, but not toolishly like one of the heard. If you wear a polo...dont wear Sperry's man! Wear some Nike 6.0's or something. Ask your mom to give you a lesson on matching your clothes too. <<< That becomes more important as you get older! Make sure your clothes are clean too!!! Ask chicks at clothing stores to help you out, you'll come out looking good, and you'll get to mack on slightly older chicks!

Working Out:
Okay, so what you guys might not know yet is that after graduating, a lot the fat kids will get skinny and a lot of the jocks will join fraternities and drink themselves into obesity. Stay on top kids, don't let your bodies go! Stay in shape by playing sports. If sports aren't your thing, then try forcing yourself to take a walk/run/skateboard/bike etc. Try lifting some free weights. If your not in shape, get into shape. Don't believe what the TV tells you, "It's not your fault!" No...it is your fault (It may be the way your parents eat and the way they taught you to eat, but you make the final decision to put it in your body!).

One of the reasons I put emphasis on these points, is that if you cover them, there is a greater air of confidence and chicks dig the way you look/smell. The rest of it, you can gather from the books and posts I'm sure you've already read/will read.

Wow...the things I wish I had been told in H/S! Good luck!

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Thanks for the advice. I suppose Cornflake that I am taking this too unnaturally and methodical. I guess its just bcaz I don't want to screw up. I was(key term this year I;m focusing on str8 A's) on the track team and football team last year but we have such a garbage record that theres nothing to really brag about. I have a pretty diverse social circle, football players, dudes, rockers, etc. The problem there is I have a problem infiltrating the real top dogs of the school(the SGA peeps). I thought about joining but its not really my thing. That also makes sense about the more social environment. One question tho, should I just IOD them when I'm in class nd then later look for an oppourtunity to approach during lunch, FB game, or w.e.? To Layout no offense taken on #1 bcaz its true, 2 is good nd I like 3 its smooth. Are you in high school now? Nd Crowd I have great hygiene one of my top priorities, nd I just started weight training so I'm skinny now(slightly cut) nd I plan to be swoll by the end of the year.

Thanks for the quick responses I'm going to act tom.

Anything else like openers I can run nd good conversational topics?

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Will The Thrill, 15 and ill.