HI GUYS (first post)

Just to give u a bit of back ground about myself i thought it might help.

Im 23 living in london and im reading the game at the moment and have come out of a 4yr relationship a couple of months ago. Im not shy with girls but im not that confident that i can rock up to any1 and switch my game on.

Anyway i need some advice quick as i feel it is a crucial time for action to be taken. My aunts aupair (women who looks after hse/kids) is tottally hot and is over from spain. she has been here (london, england) 4 weeks. The first time i met her at my aunts house i got her number and later that week we went for a drink, me, her and a mate of mine. 2nd time we met she bought a mate out and so did i. we went back to my aunts house to stay the night but no action and no IOI. I did not try and make any moves given there was no IOI's.

However i thought it was definetly on coz when i speak on the phone she is really flirty and sounds really interested.

So we arrnaged to out again so i go to pick her up but she was really late so i though f.. this and drove off. I left it thinking she can call me. so she did and we went out. we dropped her mates back and again went to my aunts. Again no IOI's but i thought c'mon lets just try it anyway so after playing some chill music and ushering her on to the sofa i eventually start cuddling her (she doesnt seem to bothered) then slowly she starts coming round and says, are you ok? are you comfortable? i was like yea, so i start rubbing her arm and stuff and then move in to kiss her.

By the way she is 18. so we were kissing for ages that night and she got her breasts out and started to have a play etc then we slept. that was about it that night and i left to go home.

We met again went out for a nice quiet drink together and when i dropped her home we got to 2nd base. When i was kissing her she doesnt like me touching her leg and stuff but is ok with me touching her breasts seeing as she puts my hands on them.

SO y am i on here? well it just seems like she is loosing interest how can i pull it back and encourage her to see me and take things further?

I think she is one of these girls who changes her mind all the time. what can i do. thanks guys in advance sorry if it was long but i thought it help set the scene and thus u can give me better advice.

Well since she loves you touching her breasts so much. Next time you get to touching her breasts for a while. Kiss down her neck till you are sucking on her tits. Play with her tits a while till she is really turned on. Then try to go down on her by kissing down her stomach. She may not want you to but the thought of getting head from you may be so overwhelming that she doesn't stop you.

Also some women are incredibly ticklish on their inner thighs(my wife) and will instantly stop you. You think you're being rejected, when they are just being tickled and want you to stop. It frustrated the hell out of me when i first met her. I learned i had to go strait for the kill shot(vagina) when putting the moves on her. So you may try moving your hands down from her breasts over her stomach to the vagina.

THANKS MAYBE THATS WHAT I NEED TO DO.

The question now is how i get her to come out again.

I think she knows what i want some nookie nookie. I think she wants it but doesnt want to admit it u know?