So here's the deal. I met this girl online...charmed her by taking her out. Then invited her camping for the weekend (with a bunch of friends). She came along, but at first wanted to just hike and then go home. In the end she stayed the first night. We made out, she stayed till 6:00 the next day and then went home.

So we texted and she suggested we go on a hike wednesday of this week. Tuesday night she canceled b/c she found a job and had to start right away. She wanted to reschedule for the weekend. She was going to find out her work schedule and get back to me on Wednesday evening...now its Friday still no word from her.

Here is my question. Do I play it cool when she calls...saying something like "don't think this weekend will work out for hiking maybe sometime next week"? or some other clever line...or do I go with it if she wants to hike tomorrow or Sunday?

Really like this girl and want to make it happen. Not just looking to hook up with her.

Try this:

If u don't hear from her until then, call her the morning b4 you go on a hike and <i>invite her to join you</i> spontaneously. Demonstrates you weren't thiking about more than she was, and reminds her at a critical time to jump for it in case she forgot about your plans.

If she can't make it for some reason, indirectly suggest that she is missing out. Then message her at least a day later and give her another option to hang out with you.

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Cool. Thanks. I'll give it a try.

Hm ye, that's pretty good. But if she doesn't come along and afterwards show no reaction of taking contact with you, I would drop her, not message her.