Having sex, but not making her your girlfriend?

How do you go about doing this? Maybe im just naive, but isnt there an element of harshness if you have sex with the girl, but dont make her your girlfriend?

In fact, how do you even escalate physically with a girl, without her thinking at some point that you are going to become her boyfriend? After all, your spending all this time with her, but really its just to have sex with her, then move onto the next girl?

Im not talking about one night stands/sleeping with drunk girls. I mean from meeting a girl to having sex with her for the first time at a later date, i find it hard to believe this taking place unless she thinks you are going to become her boyfriend at some point.

I understand that some people use the pick up arts to get a new girlfriend, but how does it work for those who want to remain single?

Cheers

They remain single.... easy as that.

It's more about managing her expectation then yours ONCE you figure out what you want. After reading your post it seemed like you have not defined yet what you want. Do you want a serie of sexual encounters or do you want more a steady LTR?

Once you figure that out go for it.

Girls nowadays are a lot more open to sex only relations then you would think.

Well i guess i dont want to be in a relationship right now, unless the right girl comes along.

I guess im just looking at it from the girls perspective. A guy spending time with her, having sex with her, but not making her his girlfriend. Like i say, maybe i am naive?

Tons of girls don't have a problem with this believe me. I've seen enough lays that convert to friends with benefits type situations. Like it was stated it's all about managing the expectations and not leading her into thinking there is going to be a relationship. Some great people to study would be: El Topo, Sinn, and Captain Jack. They are well known for their abilities to pull single night lays without it leading to more stuff.

El Topo - www.theredmole.com
Sinn - Sinnsofattraction.blogspot.com
Captain Jack- betheseducer.com

BUT good luck in finding your relationship man!

Jon

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