Ok so I have been running some good game and having fun with a young model named Kayla for a while, always giving her negs on her looks and the fact she has too many guys chasing her and that it would be a nightmare having a girl like that all the good stuff etc etc

so tonight we did our second dance class together (salsa) and at the end i grab her and say come here i want my kiss pull her in and gave her a kiss, not a pash just soft on the lips, she wasnt going to give up a pash which i dont really mind, altho on reflection does that mean ive been running soft game or she wants to show me shes not that easy hmm not sure yet.
anywho we get talkin and she says she is sick of being single, i ask what she thinks of me and she says im growing on her and shes not too sure yet because she doesnt know what i want. we kiss a few more times and do a bit of banter and i tell her i dont look for anything i let things happen as they happen, but i also tell her i want her.

I think she does like me but she gets alot of attention from many men so im trying to stand out here, ive done well upto this point but if i didnt be a man and say something i was heading for that friend category so i have slotted myself in the possible relationship category, I love going out gaming but i would slow it down to try something with her. she tells me she wants a relationship but not specifically with me. I figure going in strong is not a good thing to do, i might try seeing if she will just be up for heading out somewhere just me and her.. ack i dont know.

have i given too much power :/
will she lose attraction knowing shes gotten me like all the other suckers?
how do i play it from here?
im not sure how to act when i see her this sunday.

have i given too much power :/

Power, what do you mean by power, you got the girl, high five.

will she lose attraction knowing shes gotten me like all the other suckers?

Yes ofc she will. But she doesn't have you, and that is what's turning her on.

got the girl? by got the girl you mean have her interested in me then i guess so.

i dont know i still have many tests i need to pass in her eyes, but i think i know better than to be what she wants. im not going to act a sap because she wants something serious, i wont mold myself into what i think shes wanting as thats soft, i hope im on the right track here, this is unfamiliar territory - ive done well with girls in the past but this one is very sure of herself and can quite easily find another guy.

Ive decided on sunday ill get her to do something for me. I imagine thats a good DHV trick which she wont be prepared for.


by power I mean she could now feel she knows im interested so she can start to turn on the typical "chase me" persona which im sure many chodes fall victim to.

Hmmm... imho you should act a bit more aloof. You asked what she thought of you, which is a DLV. You should appear to not care what she thinks of you. You also told her you want her, which is probably another DLV.

You said you're doing salsa so I'm assume you're going to dance classes? Next time you do the salsa, text her later (if you have her #) and say something like, "We've done the salsa, how about next time we make a complete Spanish evening of it and go out and get some tapas?"

Do not ask her what she thinks of you or tell her that you want her again though.

completely agree.

i felt as if i displayed lower value and i could feel the slight shift, ive seen her a few times since then scored a pash and things seem to be going well, we're communicating etc. im not doing anything needy. she cooked for me. it was awful. i gave her some good negs


she knows i want her now so i dont need to repeat myself, she knows my intentions so i think it could pan out better from me lowering my guard a little anyway.

Be careful with the cooking negs. Make sure they are playful or she might be genuinely hurt and upset (if the food really was awful). There is obviously attraction there so just take it naturally.