I went out with a friend tonight, and she brought her friend along. I had met her once before. We go to the bar, and as we are sitting down, my friend and her friend sat on seperate sides of the table. i went with my gut and sat by my friend so i was across from my target. We had a fun evening, I was directing the conversation and it was all fun. I teased and busted on my target a little bit. I didn't Kino, but the girl had mentioned in passing, we were havinga conversation about her co-workers, about how she's not a touchy feely person. So I didn't worry about it.

So:

1. Did I make the right choice on where to sit?
2. Was the non-touchy feely thing a shit test to see if I'd kino her anyways?

It really probably doesn't matter that much if you've already made a connection with the girl. But, I think it's usually a good idea to sit next to your target. You can start kino, and she can get more comfortable sitting next to you.

Honestly it sounds to me like you where able to get the ball rolling and you are over analyzing a bit.

Did you end up getting a good hint, like a telephone number or something, that she wanted to see you again.

If you felt good about the encounter, especially from what you've described, you are doing just fine.

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I always sit next to my target. The table in between have ruined many oppurtunities for me.

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Where you are sitting does vary some aspects. If you are next to her it is more personal and easy to kino. You can't turn your friend into a 3rd wheel so it isn't much of an issue though. When across a table you can make a lot of direct eye contact. Great methods of kino are thumb-wrestling and/or hot hands. Challenge both girls. Then take both girls on at once, one on each arm. It's good fun and easy kino.

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