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| slck | PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 4:51 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Aug 08, 2007 4:35 am Posts: 17 Location: Atl | | Ok a few months ago I was totally played by this chick I had known for a few months. I never really tried to date her since she lived about an hour away so when I decided to try and start something with her she acted totally interested for a couple of weeks (called and talked alot..maybe too much)and invited me to spend the weekend with her but after I got there she totally threw up the bitch shield and told me she only thought of me as a friend when I tried to kiss her. So I have not really talked to her since I have enough friends.
I didn't know then what I know now and its been like 6 months so my question is is it possible to build attraction again after it seems like it has been destroyed?
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| Monkey | PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 5:51 am | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Wed Aug 02, 2006 12:34 am Posts: 738 | | After you've spent this much time not talking to her? Doubtful. She'll be coming into the interaction with a very negative idea of where you're coming from. She'll smell agenda on you, even if you don't have one going in, and that's going to do killer things for you throughout the interaction.
I'd say let it go, find yourself a pretty girl in a cafe somewhere, and content yourself that the fish of the sea are varied and beautiful. _________________ Repent now and save 50% on your next divine judgment.
-Monkey's Little Brother, Spud
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| Giacomo | PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 8:44 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Thu May 10, 2007 2:57 am Posts: 294 | | To be honest I think if you run into her randomly it should be quite simple to pick-up.
But yeah, like monkey said, if you go after her she will think 'agenda'.
If you bump into her go for it though. Should be easyish cos you already got the whole comfort routine sorted out. _________________ - Giacomo
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| slck | PostPosted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 12:39 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Aug 08, 2007 4:35 am Posts: 17 Location: Atl | | So if I do bump into her how should I play it?
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| Swing | PostPosted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 12:47 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Wed Aug 08, 2007 11:29 pm Posts: 39 | | Try to get her to notice you and have her be the one to make the approach. Then when she says "hi", be like "Do i know you?" If she's as stuck up as you make her sound, this will be a hard neg to her ego but she'll be able to take it, plus it will make her want to make you remember her this time around, and make your game that much easier.
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