Hello everyone, I'm from Europe, so I'm not really sure what all phases means in the Courtship Process mentioned in Style's "The Rules of the Game".

I'd really appreciate if someone could help me clear this out, or just write a smaller list like: 1. Open, 2. Neg, 3. Rolloff, 4. DHV-story with hooks e t c...

Q for my questions!

Phase 1:
- Appear at the object of Desire, but be aloof.
Q: How do you appear as aloof? Bringing a pivit?
- Approach nonthreatingly, time contraint.
Q: None.
- Create intrigue & curiousity, inspire her to engage.
Q: Whats creating intrigue? An interesting debate?
- Ready to leave, actively disinterested, disqualify.
Q: First do a rolloff, then look around and at then neg her?

Phase 2:
- Prove yourself social value.
Q: How do I do this if I came alone? Telling a story with a lot of DHV spikes?
- Create intense emotions.
Q: If the answer to my last question was "story", do I include emotions in it? Like "my niece fell down the stairs".
- Create light confusion, challenge, tease, banter.
Q: None.
- Reach the hook point, win over her friends.
Q: Get her friends interested, to get her more interested right?
- Demonstrate social proof, increase social value.
Q: Story again? Present a cool buddy?
- Create opportunity for qualify alone time together.
Q: Is this the same as isloate? Like saying "hey, follow me, I wanna show you something cool"?

Phase 3:
- See her potential, challenge her efforts.
Q: What does this mean exactly?
- Qualify and challenge.
Q: Is this the same as Bait Hook Reel Release? Or just DHV and neg?
- Reward, establish commonalities, show interest.
Q: Reward for good behavior and find similarities with her without negging?
- Cold read, control frame, reframe if needed.
Q: What is control frame and reframe?

Phase 4:
- Entertain with stories and games.
Q: None.
- Change location, create new experiences.
Q: Like taking her to the restaurang across the street?
- Demonstrate trust, relationship telescopes time.
Q: What does "relationship telescopes time" mean?
- Elicit core values, recall report memories.
Q: What does this mean?
- Associate with positive feelings.
Q: Happy stories/memories?
- Deepen bond and connection.
Q: How?
- Test kinesthetically and escalate.
Q: What does this mean?
- Insinuate and motivate so she pursues you.
Q: What does this mean?

Phase 5:
- Create a sensual SPAM.
Q: Love talk?
- Elicit sensual values & create erotic state of mind.
Q: Kino and dirty talk?
- Employ erotic kinesthetic teasers and escalate.
Q: More kino?
- Observe and respond to what turns her on.
Q: None.
- Make the bold move, indirect sensory explosion.
Q: "Indirect sensory explosion" ?
- Cuddle and chill together without rushing.
Q: None.
- Set and manage expectations.
Q: None.
- No regrets, she feels good about her decisions.
Q: None.