So i found out today that at a friends birthday in a few weeks a girl who i knew when i was younger is gonna be there too. I know that this girl is now an absolute comfortable HB10: models, gets to all the best clubs, hangs around with ridiculously good looking girls and guys etc. You get the picture. And basically i wanna up my game and try to get this girl (cos shes actually cool too, well she was last time i saw her, about 5 years ago!)
I have a few weeks and i really wanna "practise" before then so that i have a few great routines sorted in my head.
I've had HB9's before but this girl is a challenge. I heard something by Mystery that says with a girl like that start with a neg like: "You know why you suck? Cos you're always with your friends and i'm over here wanting to meet you but i can't cos you're playing little Miss Popular!"
Has anyone ever tried an opener like this??? And if so what was the response (i'm not questioning Mystery btw, not at all, but i need to know whether im capable of using an opener like that yet!)

Thanks,
Jug

I love how you say this as if its blasphemy to question Mystery.

Said in a light hearted tone with a cheeky grin, sure, why shouldn't it work. If you saying it looking grim and unhappy then she'll react negatively unsurprisingly. But try not to rely too much on routines, just let it flow and build a rapport with her. Its not hard to build rapport with a hot girl so long as you don't treat her as an object of worship. She is after all, still human.

You have One-itis.

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Which one, me or him?

Mystery forces it with his "pre-canned" lines.

They only work for him. Everyone has a different gaming style.

My advice to you is to NOT think of what to say before hand because then it will just sound rehearsed.

Go into the field knowing that whatever may be thrown at you is what you are going to work with.

I dated this stripper, and the way I got her was literally to not analyze the situation of what to say.

You need to be in the moment and spontaneous.

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I understand that being spontaneous is the best way but lets be honest, sometimes we freeze. I was wanting maybe a couple of canned routines practised to seem spontaneous. Maybe your right though, if it's canned, it will probably sound it. I normally do try to be situational meaning it is in the moment, i should stick to what i know best.


(And to "weeneedhelp", ridiculous shout that mate. That's not "one-itis", its just wanting to lay an HB10. Unbelievable slesh that son.)

In order to pick up an HB10 you need to merge sets.

It's almost impossible without doing so, unless she has an HB6's mentality.

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Beauty is sujective, to you shes a 10 to other guys she may only be a 9, an 8 or even a 7. They have done studies with some really good looking girls and asked guy to rank them if shes really attractive then shell usually get a response from 8 to 10 sometimes 7 from some guys. The bottom line is that while most guys probably treat this girl as if she is attractive she dosnt get treated like a 10 from all guys and she will never know her value with you untill you give it to her. So if you treat her like a 7 she'll probably think thats all she is to you (this would be a great thing to do). Obvoiusly the best way to do this is to neg her so I would definatly have at least 5 good negs planned before I even went over there. I think a really good way to start your night off at this party would be to get into a conversatation with the group of people shes talking to and wait for her to remember you before you remember her (if you can work the set shes in really well then she will definaly remember you) then when she says remember me, be like oh ya you just look so much different. If she was really attractive when you knew her 5 years ago this will really screw with her head (shell be thinking to herself, I used to be attractive what is he trying to say) then if she asks you what do you mean, say not different in a bad way just different. When I do this it puts me in the perfect position because my goal is to make her selfconcious with out being to much of an ahole, like if I told her she didnt look as good as when I knew her in highschool thats being to much of an ahole and she wont even want to be around you (I know because Iv told a girl that before). I have had alot of encounters with girls from my past and this seems to be a really good way to play it (my goal is always to get inside her head and start kicking shit around without her getting inside my head and kicking shit around).